
10:34 am

September 30, 2010

Hi everyone,
I've never really logged onto a site like this before but wanted some advice. I'm still in college and have a wonderful boyfriend. We've been friends for many years and have been dating for about the last year. I usually think of myself as a dependent woman, however lately I find myself asking questions and wanting to know what my bf does almost every time we're not together. I'm afraid I'm becoming more and more dependent on him and I don't really like that. However I'm not sure what to do about the situation. I'm happy with my life and don't want to depend on him for much at all. Please give me advice on this situation - I'm trying to make myself a better person though all this and not let this relationship fall apart. He's one of my best friends and I would never want to ruin that. Thank you 🙂
10:46 am

September 27, 2010

well, we're all co-dependent to some extent...many people use the term codependent when they are talking about such behavior that becomes unhealthy when carried farther and farther.
I think it's natural to want to know what one's love interest does in the course of a day when apart. I think what we need to avoid is making our own happiness in life contingent on how someone else treats us.
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