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May 4, 2001
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Molly
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So, Cici gave me the title sisters doing it for them selves, but my question is how and where and when do we teach them?
We are born miracles, we have such power, and reading these threads, it seems we keep getting tangeled up,before we are old enough to play with the ropes. My thought was, we go from jump rope, to the snake dance, 🙂
How do we teach the young ones to be different, to learn to be women before they become mothers? To learn to enjoy being a girl before a girl friend? Mothers day is around the corner, and I am sure from pain to pleasure, feelings will be triggered. So girls, lets put it out there, and see what we can create from this?

May 4, 2001
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Hi ya Girlfrien'!! Good going! I concur and will definitely chime in. Women have always had it rough in society... And I think one reason is because we have an innate power about us that we aren't even aware of most of the time. So, we end up having it pillaged and trampled and imprisoned simply because someone wants to have the butterfly in the cage so they can vicariously have it for themselves.

Doesn't work that way. And society ends up losing a most beautiful essence by not reverencing the very vessel that carries life and nutures it for the entire human race.

Women do it to themselves, too - by being bought with trinkets that basically rob our very souls where true femininity flourishes. We don't have to become like men....in order to be successful...we just have to be true to our womanhood in all the ways that make us fantastic creatures.

We downplay so much about ourselves that wants very much to burst forth and bloom and we squelch it...give into social norms and do what other women tell us to do - even though we see that they are miserable.

It's all about learning what delights us,what makes us feel alive, what makes us feel treasured, respected and "safe" and going about providing that for ourselves - instead of allowing the picture to be painted and filled in "for us" by others.

We so seldom really turn inward to our true self and go - what do you like? What makes "you" happy and wouldn't it be great to go outside of my little yard and examine this big world and what's in it...in order to - answer these questions?

We don't have to always be confined to "the box". We can - think outside of it. We're very good at that actually....if we'll just do it! We too easily surrender our power to others instead of claiming it for ourselves and then standing guard over it - only sharing it with a select chosen few who are "worthy".

Yes - we very much need to discover the fragile beauty that we are and learn how to value it....in everything we do.

May 5, 2001
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Ladeska,
Noticing all the dialog, is this like all the teaching, and coaching. All so caught up in the moment. Surprised yet not at the contributions, perhaps it should have been what is the biggest mistake you made as a woman on your path of life that you can share so that others will not endure the experience?
Your writing again, is a gift.

May 6, 2001
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Women are still just sooo downtrodden in spirit and in heart...they are in hiding and it breaks my heart... They are so scared not to be tough. But, the one thing that is missing with women is that they do not know how to build a protective shelter around them so that the can bloom. They don't know how to find nourishment for their soul.

May 7, 2001
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Check this out - new theory...

Scientists have discovered that all species they previously considered monogamous (geese and hawks, for instance) aren't actually monogamous. What happens in these species (as with humans) is that the female never has a clear fertile period in her cycle, so she is always sexually available. In this way, she tricks the male into providing her resources. Meantime while he's out hunting she diddles the neighboring male and thus ensures that through genetic variety the largest proportion of her offspring will survive!

So I think all these social and physical restrictions on females are the male attempt to prevent cuckholding. After all these years. Give me a break.

But it's hard. I mean, I think Maslow's idea of the "secrect psychic death of childhood" is really apt. Some of us just keep the little kid locked in the attic and give her food every now and then - but others have completely killed off the little them that knew what it was like to feel pleasure without guilt. they're what my sisters and I always called "the POD PEOPLE" - from invasion of the body snatchers.

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