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Sign up for no contact Wednesday!!
January 26, 2005
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I AM IN!!! I WILL NOT TALK TO ANYONE WHO BRINGS IN THE BAD AND UGLY.

THANKS FOR STARTING THIS ,
DEELY

January 26, 2005
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Yeah! Team! Go!

January 26, 2005
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YEA - I'm in too. I have only his cell number to contact him, but I erased it from my home phone and my cell phone and pretty soon it will be gone from my memory, too. I'm working on Day 8 of no contact. WE CAN DO IT AND WE WILL DO IT!!!!! NO POWER TO THEM OVER US. POWER TO US!!!

Rock on everyone!!!

Ms.P.

January 26, 2005
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starry....well, just got off the phone with him again...another 20 mins of wasted life. I'll try to start now...can anyone make my mind stop thinking of things to say to him and calling him???? I called him back because i wanted to know exactly when he told Jennifer about me and if she's ever been with him when we've talked and I wanted to know if he met her online chatting...and I wanted to know if he told her just the bad stuff about me or if he told her all the times i've helped her.....he got annoyed with me and told me i asked too many questions....sigh....i just started crying...AGAIN....

January 26, 2005
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allwaysconfused,

Put the call behind you and vow that you will not contact him anymore today.

Don't beat yourself up over it. He is not worth it.

This thread is wonderful! I can't stay away from it. This has given me such courage - just knowing that there are women and men out there trying to break free of relationships like I am.

Almost noon and no contact. GOOD FOR ME! 🙂

January 26, 2005
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Hurts....way to go.....it is so nice to have support.

always....Do you even think if he decides to answer your questions, that it is going to be the truth?
Don't give him the chance to upset you!
Come on, you promised us..no contact today. Just 1 day. If you have questions, write them down, and if you still feel the need ask tommorow.

I love hearing about how long everyone has not had contact...Aces..6 days is so awesome..I am so proud of you!

January 26, 2005
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Thanks so much Starry, I didn't think I could do it but I am, and he is too so I guess that is good too. I know secretly I would like him to try to contact me, but then again I know that if he does I am not strong enough yet.

January 26, 2005
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Yah, Aces...I won't lie, it is a nice feeling when they initiate contact...but so not worth it, because it doesnt mean they have truly changed...they just are missing their attention!!

You are better off without him...we all are.

Find someone who contacts you because he wants too..not becuase he misses the games.

January 26, 2005
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Starry...great thread!!! I'm IN!! all the way!!

January 26, 2005
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How is everyone doing on no contact?

I got an email this morning, but didn't respond....maybe by tommorow I wont' want to.

Are you all keeping your promise???

January 26, 2005
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Maybe I should just try and start fresh tomorrow....I'm just too weak and too dang emotional today...:-(
I called him again just to ask him if we are or aren't friends now...he said he didn't know after the way I've acted today and said his head is pounding from my crap. I said I was sorry....but I asked him if we're just casual friends...are we the type of friends who have lunch together?...and he said he didn't know. I asked him what about next week?? He said he's going to be swamped next week because he's got to go to all the Lowe's. I said..."but it's my birthday next week.." he said..."I know...and I'll be in (my town) obviously one day". (because there is a Lowe's in my town) Then he got his food from the drive thru and said he needed to eat and was tired of talking about this today and he'll talk to me later...:-(

January 26, 2005
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Always, honestly give him a break for now. I think he is just stressed and doesn't want to deal with all of this right now on top of everything else. I really think if you just let it be for a little bit, give him the chance to miss you that he will call you and actually miss you. The thing about missing someone is you have to give them the chance to miss you.

January 26, 2005
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Oh my...is his name Will, cause that conversation you had sounds 100% exactly like my ex....it is kind of scary.

You deserve someone who has already planned your birthday...

But, yes if you want to do no contact tommorow, I will be here for you...and I am sure others will too!!

January 26, 2005
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Thanks Aces....I'm gonna try....but i'm scared he wont miss me because he has jennifer now....:-(

January 26, 2005
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" How can I miss you, if you won't go away? "

I have this posted on my computer at work and my mirror at home...it is true...once I started living that way, my ex contacted me.....and by then I wasn't sure I wanted to hear from him.

Keep posting!

January 26, 2005
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Starry...no, his name is Dale. I'm in Georgia by the way. I often wonder if some of the people on here are talking about Dale as well because the guys and situations sound so similar it scares me and I know he chats online and meets people all over...which scares me also....

January 26, 2005
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Honey, if he won't miss you..then do you really honestly want to be with him.
And even more so, if he doesn't miss you and doesn't want you back....you won't ever force him too.

I was you...I know what you are going through,.... It is important to keep reality in perspective.

Again, we all care about you!!!

January 26, 2005
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Awww....thank yall so much!!! I need all of you more than u know!

January 26, 2005
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Oh no...Will is in Ohio and not just some online person...he is real...a real ass, but real none the less.

So weird, we all seem to have similar guys...I sometimes see similarities too.

January 26, 2005
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Dale is real...we met 4 years ago online in a chat room...then met in person. I don't chat anymore, but he does. He and I only see eachother and talk in person or on the phone...he is in Georgia also. Tomorrow i'm not going to talk to him at all...:-) Yall help me be strong!!

January 26, 2005
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I'm in! It's been almost 4 months of no contact for me!!!!

And if I can do it, then all of you most certainly can too!!!

love and lots of support,

art angel

January 26, 2005
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You rock ART, seriously 4 months, I remember when you first went through this.

January 26, 2005
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awww thanks Aces, you be strong! You can do it! I know you can!

It does get easier-- although some days are harder than others.

What got me through is just realizing that I am too good for him. Honestly.

January 26, 2005
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I'm in! Am I the only guy in on this?

January 26, 2005
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Hi guys it's probably thursday now; due timezone difference but I'm also on on this one.

wish me luck at work today; I have a very awful feeling there will be an email

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