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Sign up for no contact Wednesday!!
January 26, 2005
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Seems like a lot of people are struggling with trying to move on with an unhealthy relationship.

The one thing people told me over and over was to stop all contact...no calls, no emails!!!

So, how about for today, lets promise each other we will not contact our ex's, current's ...whomever it is we know we should move on from but can't!!!

Sign in on this post, if you will promise us to at least for today, have no contact with that person.

I'm In!!!

January 26, 2005
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I have no reason to contact my ex and see no reason for him to contact me, but I will sign.

I'm in also.

January 26, 2005
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Well I promise, Im on day 6 anyways, so here we go.

January 26, 2005
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BTW did I mention that they can all kiss our asses?

January 26, 2005
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big smooch right here please!
take that jerk

January 26, 2005
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I AM IN!
Even though ,I am living with him ,I will totally concentrate in my life!!
and he can L,my ass!

January 26, 2005
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Great to see everyone who is in so far!!

Today is a great day to concentrate on you!!

Lets check in later to see who stuck with no contact..

Hurts..where are you on this?

January 26, 2005
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darn i allready had to give, i acc. left my cell at his house last night, had to call him to ask him to bring it to me. no responce-grrrrr. ohwell starting........NOW!

January 26, 2005
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It's ok..just start NOW...no more contact today!!!!

January 26, 2005
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Count me in as well!! I still am friends with my ex but I want more so staying away is a good thing right now!! Great Idea!!

January 26, 2005
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my b/f is suppose to come to see me tonight and I said I would call him sometime on his way down as he is having dinner with his mom - I pledge to not call him or email him today and let him make the effort.

It feels great to actually take a baby step forward. I was able too last night and not make the effort to see him and I felt great. Anxious still, but better about ME.

Good luck everyone - we can do it.

January 26, 2005
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Can I start tomorrow? I just read this and today has already been completely destroyed with an hour conversation with him about the same old crap again....sigh....

January 26, 2005
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Starry,

What a novel idea! Great, cute.

I sign up in support of everyone. Yeah! Team! Go!

And for me, I will try to let go of the negative thinking, or any thinking about my STBX and just to allow that peace to be there!

January 26, 2005
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Hey girl,
Good thread, I told you were a worthwhile person inspite of yourself. Look how much courage and help you've given all the people who have responded to your thread. I guess that pity party was getting kinda old, huh. Glad to have you back. While I love that other Starry unconditionally as much as this Starry, this one is more fun to be around. Keep up the good work, and when you get down call me (posting will have to suffice) instead at least when I hang up with you won't be as sad.

-Cactus

January 26, 2005
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ILS? You left your cell phone at his house? HMMMMM what were you doing there? BUSTED, just kidding.

January 26, 2005
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Hey Always...you can start NOW...not tommorow...we will let it slide the hour long conversation!!!

I am glad you joined in and hope you stick with it!!!

Baby steps are little, but any forward movement towards our recovery is GREAT!!!

I am so proud of US!!!

Let those jerks wonder all day what is going on!!

January 26, 2005
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Hey Aces,
How are you today, really? Day 6 I see pretty impressive. Sound off. I was wondering who was gonna bust on ILSILS leave it to you (ha ha)
-Cactus

January 26, 2005
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Yeah well if I CAN DO IT, I think anyone can. So yes day 6 and even though yesterday sucked, today is a hell of a lot better. That little prick can prick off. And he is logging onto messenger moreso than ever and it is the yahoo one he knows I am on, but I have not immed or anything, even though a huge part wants to IM him and say what the hell are you doing stop it. I will not give in. Besides it might not even be about me maybe he has met some new girl that is on yahoo messenger, don't know, right now at least I don't care either.

January 26, 2005
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congratulations everyone!

January 26, 2005
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I'm DEFINITELY in....i have had it with this jerk!

I will remain strong today. 🙂

January 26, 2005
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Good to see us all sticking together today!!!

January 26, 2005
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Sure. I won't talk to anyone today.

January 26, 2005
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starryslp,

GREAT idea starting this thread! How about starting one each day of the week? I think if we all stick together and give each other encouragement and support we can get rid of the jerks in our lives 🙂

There's power in numbers!

January 26, 2005
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I know from experience that one day leads to two, to three....etc...

I does, belive me, get easier.....I have been on this rollercoaster for 8 months....and the best I felt was when I had stopped contacting him for like 2 weeks and more....I will do this everyday if it will help us.

Sticking together and having encouragment helps!

January 26, 2005
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yeah you are right! the longer you go without talking to them the more in control of your own life you feel and things just get better from there.

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