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Sick of it all and want out
September 2, 2001
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frostycub
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Hey all. At the risk of sounding pathetic I'll go ahead and say that I want out of this life. I've been seeing a therapist and still, I just can't find any good reasons for living. All I have are reasons for not killing myself (i.e. there are people who do care about me and would be hurt). But, the bigger this pile of BS grows, even that is becoming less important. A little background, I got divorced in Febuary. That's a long story, and I have done a lot of healing and growing. But, I am lonlier than I have ever been and life is so pointless now. Not just because of being divorced, but the way the world is, the way people are, the way I take two steps back for every one forward. It's all too much. I am fully capable of handling all of this, but I don't want to. Please...any help would be greatly appreciated. I'm just so exhausted that I'm ready to give up. I hate this, it's driving me insane and I don't see many good reasons to continue at this point.
-Frosty

September 2, 2001
5:55 am
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September 2, 2001
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I am sure you've hear this befoe. But just hang in there. Today maybe bad and maybe tomorrow will be too. The only one who can help you is you. Do something to make your self move. Even if you just clean the kitchen, or go through the mail. Do something. Even the littlest things will make a difference. Then maybe tomorrow won't be so bad.

September 2, 2001
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Dear Frostycub,

Please take just a moment to ask yourself a question: "Do I want to be dead, or am I just tired of living the way I have been?" If the answer is that you are just tired of living the way you have been, then there is something that can be done.

I have spent lots of time considering the issue of suicide and have come to conclude, (just my own opinion...) that whatever you have in your heart, intellect, and emotions is what you take with you. I have the feeling that a person who suicides is disappointed to find that not only did their souls cross over, but so did all their issues except now you don't have a physical body to use as a tool to help you cope with those issues. Of course, I could very well be wrong but why take that chance...

Please keep coming here for support. If you would like to email me, you can. I would be happy to communicate with you and offer you support on a more intimate level. [email protected].

Sincerely,

Mal

September 3, 2001
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Molly
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When ever I have found my self feeling like you are right now, I find the best approach is in giving. finding a place, like a board and care, to give to others, makes me feel like I have value, then the healing takes over. It is a challenge to rebuild life after emotional trauma, but its worth the effort. Keep trying, and when you feel the blues comming on, fight it through to the sunshine.

September 6, 2001
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Have you ever thought about anti-depressants?? I have felt the same way before that you have, I went to the doc, wasn't easy cause I HATE to go to the doctor, and he put me on Prozac. I'm feeling ALOT better. I have been under incredible stress for quite a few years and the doc said he thinks I must have a chemical imbalance. I don't like that I am having problems sleeping, that's about the only bad side effect. I am doing more and helping others. That always makes a big difference. It's not hard to find someone that needs help, try a center for elderly people. There are sooo many that don't have family that come to see them if any family at all. There are teen centers, big brothers and big sisters to volunteer at. Not only will it change their lives for the better but YOURS too.
I'm not saying that anti-depressants are the answer, all I'm saying is that it could help!!
Find yourself...figure out what you want to do. There are so many things in this world to choose from!! You are special and unique, there will never be another you!! Hey, if you want to chat one on one or just send me a line....I'm at [email protected] , I know what you're going thru and I'm sorry you are. If there's anything I can do, don't hesitate to ask!!
Big hugs,
Talk to you later,
PurpleLaceButterlfy

September 8, 2001
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i think we beat up ourselves so much that we start to believe everything our mind tells us about "we arent good enough, or ill never find someone to care for me", when in reality-there is so much out there worth living for. there is beauty and laughter and people helping others. I feel that so many people help me all the time but im so consumed in my own problems that i dont get to give back enough. and giving is really what makes me feel good about myself. anyways, if we can tell ourselves how "bad" we are, we must be able to tell ourselves how good we are. sometimes when we feel lonely, maybe we need to reach out and help someone else...just a thought...hey, that sounds good, i think i need to start following my own advice.:)

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