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December 18, 2001
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December 18, 2001
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Wait... Don't go!

December 18, 2001
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YES, please talk--we are listening.

December 18, 2001
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I've talked for five years with a psychologist. Felt for 25-30 years. Still, I'm here...I'm tired of talking, rearranging my thought pattern, making a difference and longing for the thoughts and feelings to stabalize. I've worked hard for a family, a happy family and killed myself internally trying to please all. (which can never happen) Let alone, what I continuously do to myself. Enuf of all of this.

No, please nobody pity me, I detest pity. I'm cold and hard and no longer am interested in talking or being involved with anything. Just live and breathe daily is all I seem to be doing. Just life as it should be.

I've come here a little here and there and I just don't seem to make it forward.

December 18, 2001
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What do you want from life right now?

December 18, 2001
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everything and everyone to go away and leave me alone. other than that nothing.

December 18, 2001
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hey it'll be alright, ok!
its fine to be alone. try writing down your thoughts.
i'm a loner as well, but im stronger than what i was 3 years ago
i know exactly how you feel. you feel you HAVE to reply to me, but dont want to. well its fine! dont reply, i understand, just follow your heart.
you know what - F* everyone. just please yourself. your pleasure and satisfaction is first priority - only then you can hope to live a satisfied life.
if you do want to please people, for now, limit these people to your immediate family. dont please so much man .. it killed you, as you said.
so yea! F everyone, even me! (u dont have to reply to me. slam ur fist on ur desk and say to urself "from today, *everyone* can go to hell. its ME who has to be happy first! I'm the one who must be pleased FIRST!"

December 18, 2001
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ALRIGHT OBVIOUSLEY YOU DO NOT WANT EVERYONE TO LEAVE YOU ALONE BECAUSE WHY WOULD YOU BE POSTING ON HERE? AREN'T WE PEOPLE ALSO?

December 18, 2001
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I pointed out to my husband not to long ago, through a book, it took him a while to get it, but he ropes everyone into his life, through dependency. He is exhausted, he is tired, and still real lonely. He didn't understand his exhaustion, or his lonliness, until he saw that every one in his life was dependent on him, no real friends, and his kids to keep close to him, work for him, don't do a real good job all the time, but gave him the opportunity to keep them close, and controll. Never alone, but never ending up with what he wanted, everything for everybody but him. Most of his business associations, are people who aren't smart enough to figure it out for them selves. those that can, leave him due to the controll. he couldn't figure out why his phone wouldn't stop ringing, and he couldn't do any work on some days, I suggested many a time, why give them the fish, when you can give them a pole, and point to the damn lake? He is getting the hang of it, what took the longest time was for him to see the pattern. does any of this fit? You can run, and hide, but when you come out your still going to have to figure out the how and why, and if you really want to change things.

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