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Should I get checked?
May 8, 2002
9:50 am
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pg lova
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This is my scenaio. I had sex with this girl that I don't know. I used a condom but I lost my erection after cuming and I don't know if some of the semen spilled out of the condom. Also, I french kissed her. I know it was stupid, but I just got caught up in the moment. Now, I'm debating on whether or not I should get checked for STDs. What do you think? Should I?

May 8, 2002
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yes, if nothing else it will give you peace of mind. It can be free confidential, takes 5 min. Why sweat the stuff you don't have to?

May 8, 2002
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PS - french kissing doesn't transmit anything unless you or her have open sores in your mouths. The transfer of bodily fluids is necessary. Except with gential warts and HPV, which come from skin-skin contact.

If you're sexually active and have had more than one partner in a year, you should get checked for HIV every 6 months anyway, until it has been at least 1 year since you've been with one person. It doesn't cost anything, and it's easy, so why not? I always did.

May 8, 2002
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oooo....you forgot, blondie, herpes sucks to get, too. never goes away. I mean, even cold sores! If you have a cold sore on your face and give oral sex you can actually give the herpes to your partner that way! ew.

May 8, 2002
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Blondie,

Thank you for replying. When I kissed her, I had a sore at the back of my mouth, but her tongue never went back that far, am I still at risk? I am not sure if she had any cuts in her mouth but I wouldn't bet on it because I would have felt them. Or, if she were bleeding, I think I would have tasted blood right? But I did not do oral sex, especially not on her, I hardly knew her, that would just be plain stupid to do oral sex on her. I sincerely hope I didn't get anything, but I will be getting checked. I thought it was 3 months before HIV shows up on the antibody test? That's what I was told by a nurse & that's what I found when doing my research. But, what I'll probably do is get checked in 3 months and 3 months later get checked again. I have been taking a daily vitamin since that day. Like you said, I probably am fine, but if something is wrong, you best believe it won't be taking me out, I'm a fighter and a survivor and I'm gonna make it regardless. But I hope to God that the test is negative.

Also, I had a pretty rough day today. I lost my internship at the Elementary School. The woman called me irresponsible and said that she was through with me. But my question to her is why she had to tell everyone else that she had a problem with me. Never once did she address that problem to me! I was in my own world thinking I was doing an excellent job. I don't get that she can tell everyone else and not me. Then, I lose my internship, just like that. Now, I am in danger of failing one of my classes. I hope everything will be all right. I went and spoke to one of my friends following the incident. He is a minister and we took time to pray, so I am now just standing still and trusting God to work on my behalf.

I swear, today feels like a day when my world is falling apart. But I know when I feel that way it's time to bend my knees and pray.

Our father, which art in heaven. Hallowed be Thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it in heaven. Give us this day, our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. and lead us not into temptation but DELIVER US FROM THE EVIL ONE. For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory forever and ever amen.

For those Christians on here, thanks for taking time to pray with me. I just have one question, what do I do now?

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