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should i break up
August 2, 2004
10:42 pm
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isthislove
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My b/f and I have been together in a long distance relationship for a year. I truly love him and he does me, but he has a trust issue, that I am getting tired of. Since the beginning of the relationship he didn't believe that I was a virgin when he met me and I thought we were over that, but he actually brought it up the other day. Some girl that I don't even know supposedly told him a lie about me and he believes her. I seriously think this is reason to break up with him, but we have so much. Should I try and work things out with him?

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August 2, 2004
11:01 pm
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Honestly, you have to make your own decision. However, trust and respect are the key things to a healthy relationship. Once those boundaries have been severed it is sometimes impossible to repair them. Remember there is hope for every relationship and sometimes seeking couples counselling will help you sort out your trust issues. Listen to your heart and your own intuition they will give you the most guidance. Good luck!

August 3, 2004
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Hi isthislove,

I am sorry your b/f isn't trusting you, long distance relationship are rough from what I have heard, so there will definitely be struggles you will both face. Are there plans for the two of you to be closer in the near future? If there aren't, I personally wouldn't want to be in a long distance thing for a long time, that's just me though.

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August 3, 2004
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how many times have you physically met up with your long distance boyfriend. Trust is a huge issue and he either has to believe you or not...and not listen to what others say. Its up to you on if you want to stay with him, and if you do, make sure that he trusts you 100%!

August 3, 2004
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The decesion to break up is up to you, but trust is a very important issue in all relationships. Sit him down for what will be the last time and tell him how much it bothers you about what has been happening. He either trusts you or he doesn't and to continue playing this game isn't healthy for you or him so you both have a decesion to make. There is no in between with trust he either does or doesn't. Based on that you'll know what to decide. Good luck.

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