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sexual triangle
October 16, 2001
8:18 pm
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I am having a super difficult time right now and just want some advice. My husband and I have a great marriage -- he's my best friend and I am his -- really. We have become very close with another friend who is now single, but was recently dating someone. During the time she was dating, our whole group got a little wild at times, and one night she and I ended up having a sexual experience in front of my husband and her boyfriend. Well, she became single again, and things progressed. We are now actively involved in a sexual relationship with which we are all very satisfied. I am not jealous of my husband having sex with her because I enjoy having sex with her just as much (if not more) than he does, since I am in my sexual peak and also coming to accept my bisexuality. The only problem is that she and I would like to spend some time, just the two of us, and I think my husband might feel left out. However, I feel that I have been very willing to let him live out the sexual fantasy of many men, and if she and I have the fantasy of being together without him sometime, is it unfair for me to expect him to go along with it? I know this is a little wild; I feel like it's not even real as I'm writing it. But, it is not pulp fiction -- believe me -- it is real! What should I do? How can I handle this?

October 17, 2001
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I say if the three of you can sit with your clothes on long enough to talk about it, make the rules of the triangle, of course he may want to be alone with her as well, say a weekend trip, how will you feel about that? It is so difficult when you start to color out of the lines in the colorbook, break one rule, what's another one, and then where do you go for the structure and stability ?

October 18, 2001
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ladyfriend
I don't have much time to respond. The only thing I really can say is if you play with fire you will get burned. I also have been in this kind of situation. The only reason my friends husband agreed to it is because he wanted to have sex with me and I wasn't going to go there with him. Anyway when I have more time I will tell ya more about my experience. I like excitment and it sounds like you have plently of it going on for you right now.

October 23, 2001
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Blondie so how was it for you being with a woman compared to a man?

October 25, 2001
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NYC I really liked what you had to say here. I was raised in a religion were homosexuals are all going to hell. Yes the bible was written by men. Now days men don't care if you are a homosexual as long as they get to be a part of it some times. I personaly don't enjoy being with men because the times I have it was all about the man. When I am with woman it's a whole different experience.

Yes in my familys eyes I am sure to go to hell. But I am finally at a point in my life I have to love me for what I am. I would never wish a homosexual life on anyone. And I sure as hell didn't chose it, thats what so many people don't understand about it.

But today I am proud of who and what I am. Just because I am not out to everyone because I have a son. I am still proud to be me and that is being gay. Woman lover are not has always treated me better than men.

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