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Sex with Women
January 14, 2001
10:52 pm
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I am a young women who loves being with women but am afraid to tell my loved ones that I perfer them over men. Men have never been able to pleasure me and no I have had no past abuse...They just don't do it for me. Yes I am attracted to men but also women I just perfer sexual contact with women...I am confused on what I sould do...do I tell my family or just keep my sex life a secret. Why sould they know anyways right? Am I gay?
Confused in New Mexico. Please help

January 15, 2001
1:26 am
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i think you doubt whether you should tell your loved ones because it seems that they don't accept lesbians, right?

if they hate lesbians so much, i guess you just keep it a secret till they discover it. if they accept lesbians, they still accept you after discovering it. if they don't accept lesbians, they won't accept you after discovering it.

but what do you think is the worst case if they know it?

January 16, 2001
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Would you tell them what you do on a date, I don't think so. Why do you have to tell them anything? You are the only one that gets to choose your sexual orientation. What ever your choice is. I would not suggest being promiscus, if you are gay or straight. I don't think that there is some sort of bell that rings that says your gay, or your not gay, its your choice to live that life style or not. Some people have physical and emotional drives that appear early in life, others make a choice. Are you looking for conflict or validation? What is the big deal? Be what you want when you want, an alternative life style is not supposed to have as many consequences today, but if you want to sport with the family go for it, your an adult now and can do what you choose with out mommy or daddys ok, of course if you get something from them, and they don't like your choices then there may be some consequence, but if it is who you are, it is worth your price to be you.

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