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Seperation anxiety
February 8, 2005
11:32 am
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pedalsa
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I have been seperated from my bf for almost a month. I feel better every day but I still have moments where I feel sick and anxious and depressed. I talked to him yesterday for the first time and the sound of his voice made me just melt. He is not a terrible man but he doesn't know how to love and we really weren't going anywhere. He is very selfish and immature and when we were together I frequently wanted to ends it. We ended it suddenly, in a fight, I caught him lying, and I feel like I have no closure. I think my problem is with letting go and seperation. I suspect myparents may have ended there marriage the same way - suddenly and with anger. Is this neediness what co-dependency is really about? I feel like I would be the only person who could even imagine this man being right for me.

February 8, 2005
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i know how u feel.im actually in the same exact position u r rite now.yeah i know its really hard 2 let go of people you really loved n cared for n for it 2 juss end over a fight hurts cuz u keep wondering "well what if we didnt fight ?".if u wanna get over him u cant just all of a sudden do it, it takes a lot of time.if u feel like u really loved him n he is the one for u then maybe u should talk 2 him cuz i bet hes feeling really hurt 2 cuz he misses u or somethin like that.he prob wants 2 talk about it 2 so go for it n talk 2 him.what do u got 2 lose?u have 2 let him no how u feel n the way he reacts toward that will tell u if u shud get over him or not.im sorry ur feelin like dis pedalsa.my heart goez out 2 u gurl.much luv gurl XOX hugzz XOX--mo-- ps.tell me how it goez wit u n him

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