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SEPARATION AGAIN
January 29, 2005
10:43 am
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I have been with the same person on and off for nearly 18 years, recently split for 2 years it was real difficult at first, emotionally and financially. I got involved in a group made some friends which helped tremendously, i was in New York he was in Florida I flew down in May with my 11 year old son my 16 yr old daughter decided not to come. Had a great time talked about getting back together i wass suppose to move to Florida in October, well my daughter not wanting to go the hurricanes him not wanting to stay, my brother lived upstate i came up found a apartment and here we wind up. been 4 months and i hate it here, my husband is recently out of work for about 6 weeks this has put a strain on our relationship and financially to waiting 4 weeks for workers comp. we are splitting again so here iam 4 hours from where i used to live the middle of nowhere no money not working and getting blamed for something everyday of my life cant even talk without fighting sickening the whole thing what made me believe it would be different? cant do this anymore

January 29, 2005
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are most of the arguments cuz you won't move to Fl to be with him??? and what do your gut instincts say on being with your hubby or separating....There must be some support lines that you can call or family member to help you thru these difficult times. Keep coming back and posting, ok!

January 29, 2005
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no i did go back with him again thinking it would be different, fooled again he has no respect for me and im tired of his verbal emotional abuse, im so done with this just need to find a way out

January 29, 2005
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Had either of you gone to councelling before?

January 29, 2005
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i suggested counceling he is not interested, why would he be when everything is my fault. Its a no win situation im ready to leave with the kids move back with my parents which is the worst, but not as bad as staying with this man. I am not working right now and always have in this relationship, there were times i couldnt stay home with the kids because he didnt work for numerous reasons. But now he holds that over me meanwhile the reason i moved upstate was because it was cheaper to live and i could stay home, we discussed this but he has amnesia

January 29, 2005
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self empower yourself, powerlessness as children and then as adults creates anger and resentment towards our loved ones.
Really, YOU created your situation, stop blaming, take responsibility and empower yourself so you can have peace and happiness

January 29, 2005
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Your right i did create it i take responsibility for it too. And i am trying to get out of it

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