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Seeking out problems.
November 16, 2006
8:52 am
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My jealous nature is driving me craxy. I look for problems and things to have meaning.

I have decided that I am with the wrong person. I do, on some level, believe that the man I am in a realtionship with is a good person, but I believe him to weak and easily tempted. I think that it is just a matter of time before he is unfaithful. I dwell on his past behavior, things he did before we met, and conclude that he will do them again. I feel that I am "keeping" him from things by watching and checking up on him.

This is not the way I want to live.


November 16, 2006
8:56 am
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Yes. I believe you are right in your observation. If they have a track record of being unfaithful or unreliable or highly promiscuous in the past, they probably haven't changed (unless they are in therapy and "doing the work" to change).

Go with your gut instincts.

- Ma

November 16, 2006
9:16 am
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It doesn't sound like a healthy mature relationship, it sounds like you are baby sitting.
If you really believe you are with the wrong person then why don't you just end your frustration now?

If you really believe he is going to be unfaithful, then why are you sticking around to find that out?

It sounds like you have already convinced yourself that he is going to cheat, so you are staying in order to prove your theory right.

Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy? That's what you need to be asking yourself.


~~Hope has a place, but not above reality~~

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