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scared or just in denial??
April 20, 2001
9:11 pm
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cherryLee
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i have recently being divorce but still love my exhusband, i think he is seeing this girl he work with he said nothing was going on yet a couple months after the separation he took her out. I found out that he bought flowers and went to the movies with someone, i go about as if i am ok because my family will worry but i hate to think about him and her together it really hurts, then i try not to think too much about it and then tell myself thats ok i can deal with it but i don't know if i am dealing with it or in denial, it is even hard for me to accept that the marriage is over sometime i am num i am not sleeping very well anymore and i do not tell anyone that i am divorce, i cry most time but put up a brave front if anyone or him is around. Can someone suggest how do i move on and let go, he is the only person i ever dated or were ever intimate with, and how do i accept him with her???

April 21, 2001
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You have no choice, you are now divorced. It is time for you to get a life, if you are struggeling with depression, its going to be harder, it sounds like you are wearing shame due to the divorce. Counseling will help you work through these issues, but you need to quit fretting over spilt milk, time to move on. It hurts, its hard, but things get better with time, and accept never, but again no choice.

April 24, 2001
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thanks Molly, i guess i am just afraid to face it. I will tell my family about the divorce but not the reason for the divorce, i made a promise. I don't know how to go about finding a countseler or talking to one, i check the yellow pages but i am afraid to call i don't know what to say as to why i want to come in.

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