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SANTINO....OUT!!
April 27, 2007
6:21 pm
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Well all, it's been a hell of a ride. I discovered this site when I was at my lowest point. I got sooo much good advise by sooo many good people.

But like everything, my time here has come to an end. I find myself in a gratefull situation. I'm gratefull for all that I have and all that I can give to the people who I love and love me in return.

I have found that at this point in my life, this site, brings me to a time when things weren't so great. In short posting here reminds me of my ex. I know I still have a long road to recovery but I have found that in the last few days that I haven't posted here, my recovery has improved. I'm not saying that it's all this sites fault for my pain. It just reminds me of her thats all, I don't want any reminders.

I'll return one day, thanks all for EVERYTHING YOU HAVE DONE FOR ME. THERE ARE SO MANY NAMES TO THANK, SO I'LL JUST SAY THANK YOU ALL WHO HAVE READ AND THOSE WHO HAVE FOLLOWED MY STORY AND THOSE WHO HAVE GIVEN ME THE WORDS TO GIVE ME STRENGTH. I LOVE YOU ALL! 🙂

April 27, 2007
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(((santino)))

Sad to see you go...but best wishes to you.

Mich

April 27, 2007
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Well, I´ll miss the enthusiasm I feel in your posts. Sorry I haven´t contributed much. Have a good time out and be back to visit!

April 27, 2007
7:26 pm
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San, we will miss you. I did not reply to many of your threads, only to those I could relate to. I hope you will forget your x esp is she is no good. We should not waste any time of our precious time with someone who does NOT love us no matter what. I hope I will always apply this advice to my own life!!!

I hope you will stop by to say hi!

April 28, 2007
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I know what you mean. When I first came on here and struggling with recovery from the ex, I too sometimes thought that the site added as it would give me time to
"talk" about him and sometimes you just need to let it go, let it go, let it go. You go on. I will miss you. Whenever you write something, I can sense we would be the type to sit around and talk for a long time. Those people are hard to come by. You hang in there and hopefully meet someone who can be there for you, you like and then love, and little disappointments just happen and pass but you don't get deeply hurt. Like you I still have deep feelings for my ex though I have not talked about him too much, he is still in my everyday thoughts. That I cannot make go away, it just happens. But I am grateful is not in my life to constantly run away from me and disappointment and ultimately hurt me the way he did. He cannot do that anymore. Your girl cannot hurt you anymore. It does take a lot of time, maybe a lifetime, but you need to make the best of your life with what you have and find that inner peace that you deserve. keep searching, work on yourself. Have peace and you will do well. I wish I could meet you but I am glad for the time we had. Thank you to you too. My time is limited as well because I am at a cross road myself, that I need to get busier on "me". Stop wallowing and have fun. Life should be fun so make it as you get old and you want to look back and remember good times and not focus on all the bad times. It hurts to do that so don't hurt yourself. rejection stinks to high heavens but when it comes to yourself, you have a choice to reject yourself or not. Take the not as it does no good to stay in rejection mode. Take care Santino. I think you are the greatest guy around and I think there should be much more like you or else there would not be all these ladies on the site crying over men that are not like you. You are the best!!!!! hugs to you forever. Bye bye TAJ

April 28, 2007
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((((Santino))))) All the best to ya!!! We will be here should you ever need to come chat..

April 28, 2007
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((((santino))) you will be missed, and be sure to come back again, just to say hi & tell us how wonderful your life is going!!! cuz your life will get better!!!! till next time.....(((((camer))))

April 28, 2007
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(((Santino)))

Good luck to you, I wish you well in life.

Atalose

~~Hope has a place, but not above reality~~

April 28, 2007
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Santino, I am going out on a limb here. I do not normally do this because I always feel like I cannot offer any advice because my own is in such a mess. I have been in disturbed situation for awhile.. But you are like like a breath of fresh air for me.....I have had very good men friends and still do. I have just choosen the wrong type for me to be emotional involved with. I think youcan take a break and hopefully giveyour broken heart time to heal.But if you feel like taking about it we are always here. I do know timeis a healer. There are no right or wrong rulesof how anbody deals with the matters of the heart. Everybody hasto try anything to get through the pain. The best wecan hope for is handling in in possitive way than a self destructive way. You are truly a happy want to be soul and I am one to. DO what you need to do but always remember we are still here. Take Care, horsefly

April 28, 2007
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Hi
Havent been on the site long and dont think we have talked, But best of luck and have loads of fun moving forward, you deserve it.

Im trying to move forward, and its working, but emotionally difficult. Today spent the day with my boyfriend cycling, and because I live in a small town, thought throughout the whole cycle ride I would bump into my ex. My head and heart missed him so much. I reminisced about the time we shared when we did the same cycle ride, but reading these threads, makes me realise I had such a lovely fondness for him and so enjoyed his company, but he was not the right person for me for various reasons, so I had to let go of him and move on. Yes it hurts so much, to let go of someone you love and realise you cannot change them. There is so much sadness in me about this, but I have to move forward, but my heart has not completely moved at the same pace. The truth is Ive had two lovely past boyfriends and they both bring such lovely memories to me ( I wish them both happiness in my heart), but the realization that I could not change either of them, lead me to move on, and let go with love. It hurts though, but its the kindest thing I could have done to me and them. I hope these feeling lessen with time. x

I wish you lots of fun, laughter and joy in moving forward. Take care x

April 28, 2007
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Thank You all soo much, I love you all!!! 🙂

Ohh Taj, the true love of my life 🙂 I'm gonna miss the devil out of you!!! You were always there, always...I will never forget you. You truelly have a good heart and had the pleasure of chatting with you, I only wish I can hook up with someone as thoughtfull and beautiful as you. Good luck in you're journey to happiness! 🙂

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