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SAMEONE SPEAKS SPANIHS
July 28, 2004
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Evita
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Hi Miabell, Vito, Passion.......Hola que envidia ........Ir a Puerto Rico es mi sueno.............como esta Miabell? transsexual? que es eso.......aqui hay cada cosa....es tu esposo americano? Si es con razon estas deprimida haa! no te creas la vida aqui es deprimente hazte fuerte.

July 28, 2004
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🙂 I just wanted to say that I think it's really neat that there are these threads in spanish.

It makes me feel good to know that people can find help here, even if they aren't fluent in english.

And it really emphasizes the feeling of world wide web.

I think it's great!

July 29, 2004
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Buenos dias atodas amigos

Hola Evita, como estas este dia estas bien , espero que si. pues si Mi esposo es Americano. ya sabes como son muy diferentes a no sotras, piensan cada cosa que aveses para me no es normal, pero bueno hoy esta buy bien , el dia un poco nublado,por aca pare se una ferte tormenta de lluvia. espero pase pronto. Megustaria irme a Puerto Rico como Passion. esperando todo sea muy divertido para ti Passion que te diviertas. saludas Miabell

July 29, 2004
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Hi Bianca
how are you? glad to see that your happy for us writting in Spanish. It is good for me, much easier. an is been so nice been able to talk to sameone of your on Country, BUT IT IS NICE TO TO BE ABLE TO COMUNICATE WITH ALL OF YOU. Hope everything is good for you, and count on me. anithing I can help I'll be here for you. Hugs and kisses. Miabell.

July 29, 2004
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Hi. As my nickname states. I am miabell's husband. I don't know if its appropriate for me to post here or not. If I am invading my wifes safe place to come and discuss problems please let me know. I have discussed with my wife that I have read through her posts. I only want to make our marriage stronger and happier and am willing to do whatever it takes to accomplish that. My hope in posting her with her, is that we can better understand each others needs.

I do not speak much spanish, but I have been using an on-line translator.

Questions ?

July 29, 2004
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Miabell's Hubby....
It's admirable that you want to know what Miabell is thinking and feeling. How does SHE feel about you coming here and reading her posts? Sometimes, we just feel safer talking to others that are not IN the situation and getting opinions and advice. Sometimes we feel "safer" when we think we have an open, non-judmental forum in which to express ourselves. It doesn't matter what WE think about you coming here and as YOU put it "invading my wifes safe place to come and discuss problems." HER opinion is the one you should consider. If she doesn't mind, if she does mind... that is between you two and if you want to respect her wishes.. that is between the two of you also. We aren't professionals here, and we don't ever hear the COMPLETE story, we know that. We are a place, however, where we all can come, vent frustrations and feel a little bit of understanding and have some emotional support we may not get from other places.

When I was married, I used to write my husband letters like he WASN'T my husband, but someone outside of our marriage that didn't have an emotional connection to what was going on inside our marriage. This was before the days of computer online post boards. Some of the things I wrote were constructive, and some of them were taken completely wrong and because he WAS inside the issues, he took them personally and we argued about them. If I had had a place like this to come to then, I could have voiced my frustration, gotten another opinion and seen things in a light that perhaps I hadn't thought of before, and he would not have had his feelings hurt and taken it personally when I expressed my feelings. If Miabell knows that you are reading her posts, she may stop posting, or feel that she has to temper her postings to save your feelings. What is important to ME about the situation is that she feel she has a safe place to talk freely and openly and express her feelings without the fear of having her feelings and thoughts thrown back in her face. If she was writing in a journal, would you be reading it? Are you concerned that she will say things that will put you in a negative light? None of us know you or Miabell personally, so nothing that she says here can hurt you in the "real" world.

I can't tell you what to do, none of us can. But, if you really want my opinion, I say let her have this space to feel like she has a place of her own to express herself. that is why I was so vehement about everyone letting her post in Spanish... it's about what SHE feels comfortable doing to exprss herself freely and openly and what makes her feel safe. Everyone needs a place of their own, whether a journal, a corner of the home, or even an hour in the morning to drink a cup of tea alone to think. This space is open to all, but we are NOT marriage counselors here, and we won't get in the middle or take sides... at least I know I won't.

July 29, 2004
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Christine. Thank you. I will discuss this further with her and see how she feels. She and I have discussed counceling. I realize that no-one here is a professional, but my thoughts were that if I joined in the discussion it might be more like a support group. I think my wife is intimidated by me in person. She seems to communicate more freely in writing, so I was also thinking that this would be a way for her to safely confront me about some of the things that were troubling her.

July 29, 2004
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Have her write YOU a letter... not here. But, realize that if she does, she's going to say things that you may not like, agree with, or appreciate hearing. You need to seek counseling...

July 29, 2004
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There is no such thing as a safe place...especially not on a computer. Everytime you say anything to anyone, you always risk getting hurt.

July 29, 2004
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You risk getting hurt in real life too, but at least on the computer there is the expectation of anonymity.

July 29, 2004
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True anonymity is an unrealistic expectation. You assume that everyone has to play by the rules. Some people have their own rules.

July 30, 2004
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Well,
i guess that answers the question: Mirabells husband scared Mirabell away by not respecting her privacy here. And using an online translator will only give you gibberish anyway.

I don't understand spanish, so I don't really know what all this was about.

Maybe you could start a thread for both of you, like a message board to each other.

July 30, 2004
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actually we talked about it last night, and read through the posts together. She is just busy today because our daughter is sick.

July 30, 2004
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July 30, 2004
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Hola atodos estoy un poco acupada my nina ha estado enferma esta semana, es por eso que no he tenido tiempo de charlar. hoy esta un poco mejor afortunadamente. respeto a my esposo no me molesta que lea lo que escribo asi sedara cuenta de lo que esta pasando ,por supuesto que no me intimida lo que yo diga de el, son mis sentimientos, y por eso estoy aqui para encontrar un poco de ayuda, como lo he encontrado asta ahora. Buena Evita, Passion , a todos buena suerte. Saludos MIABELL ;-0

July 30, 2004
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Platica es muy importante entre esposos...especialmente.

August 3, 2004
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Miabell y esposo, No se que decirles, porque mi relacion con mi soon to be ex no funciono , comprendo la frustacion de Miabell perfectamente, Pero yo se que tambien es dificil para el esposo, nosotros le hicimos mucho la lucha , me hubiera podido estar con el mas , pero llego un punto que discutiamos todo el tiempo y me canse de estar miserable fueron 18 anos de strugle *batallar........

August 4, 2004
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Hola
Evita lamento mucho que tu relasion termine asi , pero si es lo mejor parati, 18 anos es toda una vida , espero todo te vaya bien de hoy en adelante se que eres una mujer fuerte y saldras trinfadora mucha suerte.
nosotras no discutimos, una deves encuando, solo estamos tratando de ser lo mejor el uno para el otro. Yo de mi parte tratare de comunicarme mas con El y decirle exactamente lo que siento espero y funcione por que yo quiero que nuestro matrimonio funsione y seamos una familia feliz. espero estes bien se fuerte y sigueme ecribiendo me gusta mucho conversar con ustedes. Saludos Miabel ;-))

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