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sacarstic
June 27, 2009
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(with the permission from my sister's husband) my sister who live in japan with her husband invited me to stay with them for 2 months. it was like a dream come true for me who never had a chance to travel outside the country. 1st month of me staying here is fun where i could spent time most with my beloved sister and my niece. then, it started to get worst day by day when my brother in law seems to be more sacarstic towards me being here with free of charge. (sorry for my english). he said that i am a useless where im just do nothing here accept eating, outing and sleeping. i cant stand anymore that he kept sarcastic towards me every single day. although i really miss and love my sister and my niece, but now i felt no fun anymore to be with them here. i cant wait to go back home. my flight is 2 weeks from now...what should i do to stop my brother in law from being more sacarstic towards me? for your information, although im staying here without paying any cents, but i do help my sister cleaning their house and babysitter my niece.

June 27, 2009
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just tell him to back off and stop the negativity....your sister chose to have you stay there, that is her choice, and now this BIL needs to back off and be nicer. Whatever happened to supporting the family, etc. I'd just tell him out and out to stop it. And be thankful that you are leaving in 2 weeks, well, you may miss your sister and neice, but at least you won't have to deal with all the mean words your BIL is stating..........also how about tt your sister and letting her know how her husbands words are hurting you.

June 27, 2009
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thank you camer. i think i shouldnt tell about it to my sister in case it would ruin my sister's marriage. frankly , im an introverted person. i've got no strength to attack back my brother in law.

June 27, 2009
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YES, then tt your brother in law....and hopefully he will back off with his negative comments.

June 27, 2009
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camer, what is tt mean?

(((camer)))

June 27, 2009
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(((Blueriver))) I have to agree with (((Camer))).... I think you should just tell your brother in law how it makes you feel when he is making his sarcastic comments. You are only there for 2 more weeks, just try to enjoy your time with your sister, regardless of what he does or says. Your sister is the one that invited you to stay there. Try to have a good time and really enjoy what time you have left there.

June 27, 2009
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(((giggles_29)))hey there.thank you for listening. yes, i do think that i should spent good time with my sister and my niece. ok i'll try to tell him...sigh..but im too scared because he is the man in the house. how if he chase me out of his house??

June 27, 2009
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((((Blueriver))) If he is a real man, he won't chase you out of the house being as you are staying with them and have nowhere else to go. Just say it nicely. Ask him to please stop making those comments and that you are only there temporarily.

June 27, 2009
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You could always check to see how much it would cost to change your tickets and go home early. I have an uncle who is the same way and your BIL. You can tell them what asses they are until you are blue in the face and they will not change.

Bitsy

June 27, 2009
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(((((came))))) (((((giggles_29)))))

i am immensely appreciate your help and support. thank you so much

June 27, 2009
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HI blueriver........tt means talk to 🙂

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