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Rough times
January 17, 2005
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CoTodd
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Last night I found out that I was codependent on my wife, I end up making myself feeling bad just so that she will comfort me (pretty messed up huh?). We have had a bad couple of months and we keep on arguing. I am currently depressed and just in a really bad place right now. We havn't been married that long and I am not too sure that we will be married for very much longer. I am currently looking for professional help but I need some supporting words from people I don't know to let me know that you can recover from being codependant (sorry bad spelling). What should I do in these times?

January 17, 2005
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Hi Todd and welcome, you are taking the right steps, why not try reading some coda books and you could also attend some local coda meetings...logon to: http://www.coda.org
If your wife knows that you are getting help, this will most likely help her and want her to stay in the marriage...You, knowing there is a problem, just take lil steps and try to fix it...Codependency is a hard road...but we are all in this together, to get thru this, and become healthier..Good luck (((camer)))

January 17, 2005
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CoTodd,

Can you share some of what you are going through? I ask this because it makes it easier to respond. Please don't feel you have to.

January 21, 2005
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todd

Just do as you plz!go spend a night or 2 on the town and you will feel much better.

January 21, 2005
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that kind of behavior - making yourself feel bad so she will comfort you - why do you need comfort in that way, do you feel like she ignores you or something?

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