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Rocky Times.
June 20, 2006
3:22 pm
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Hi all, I am a newbie.
There is no CODA where I am, so along with therapy, I am utilizing this as a group thing.
I have been in a co-dependent relationship for two years. Frought with emotional abuse on both of our parts and fighting that we would always make up after and be "better than ever" We always conceded that we were friends above all else.
Until the last one. That was the one where I fought SO dirty even he can't recover.
It is completely opposite of the way I WANt to be. I am taking responsibility in this, but it so hard not to call him or email him . I asked for forgiveness, and he couldn't. I understand this.
This is a part of myslef I would just as soon disown.
Any advice on how to deal with my grief and temptation to contact him are greatly appreciated!

June 20, 2006
4:50 pm
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Purchase "Codependent no more" by Melody Beattie. It will educate you a lot. Keep yourself busy and find some hobbies and passions to take your mind off of him. There is a good thread here entitled "No Conctact Club," I recommend you to join it and post and read posts there. I will empower you a lot.

welcome! Blessings~Ras~

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