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resilient
May 2, 2000
7:13 pm
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Briannas
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Hi Resilient, if you get this. I noticed your post in social issues, and I was hoping you could talk with me about self mutilation. I've started cutting myself very conscientiously and carefully, but I've done it 3 times now, and I feel stupid and I can't tell anyone about it, I'm hoping if anyone notices that they will think I cut myself shaveing. If I tell my6 therapist... what will she do? I cant be hospitalixes and i cant have my family burdened with it all. THey know I hav depression and temper issues, but they dont really undrstand.
Any insight or help? Should I just quit,and never tell? I wonder if I can. How did you stop? It does relieve some tension and I enjoy it. But it's abuse and I knoww I need other ways to relieve my stress and that I shouldn't enjoy the pain of hurting myself.
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Briannas

May 3, 2000
7:11 pm
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anyone?

May 3, 2000
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Self mutiliation is a serious cry for help. Who better to tell than your therapist....You may not be hospitalized for this. But you need to find out. for your self and your family.

You need to get to the root of why you are abusing your self. Your therapist can help if you want her to do so.

She can't help what she doesn't know about.

May 3, 2000
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Briannas........How about talking about what leads you to want to hurt yourself. Right here, right now. A little at a time. I to was self abusive physically at a younger age. my issues ranging from sexual abuse, physical abuse, neglect and others wihich in turn allowed me to carry on what I experienced from others and became myself the self abuser. If your comfortable, begin a dialog and I believe you'll find hope, suggestions and insight so you may begin to turn self abuse into self love.

May 4, 2000
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Briannas, if indeed you can stop, please do. Try to do as heartfelt said and talk about what makes you want to hurt. It sounds like you want to talk about it. Your pain is real. The inside pain. Are you avoiding the inside by having the pain outside? Sometimes the outside pain is easier, simpler than looking at what really hurts your heart. Do you have a counselor or someone you trust to talk about it with? Don't hesitate. It can turn around starting now. Please don't hurt you. Please look for another way to ease the pain underneath. I'm sad and I'm sorry for all the trauma that has led you to this point. I'm sorry you cut yourself. I would put a bandaid on it for you and kiss it to make it better. That would just be the beginning Bri.

May 4, 2000
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well.....mostly I just got tired of being depressed. I know it doesnt make sense, but this made it feel better. I'm really embarassed that I did it. it's not easy to disguies now taht summers here. What led me to cut? Wondering if I could. Wanting something to hurt because it was bleeding. You know depression doesnt bleed. No one knows its there usually. It just hurts for no good reason. My mom used to say, stop crying or I''ll give you something to cry about.I guess I just want soemthing to cry about.Thanks for the virtual badaid Frieda.I havent done it again. Maybe I wont.I dont know what else to say that isnt just more what it seems like everyone is dealing with.My past isnt even as bad as some things Ive read here, so I feel weak and stupid to be acting out like this.No one knows.That I like.except anyone who reads this.

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