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November 10, 2005
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alanex
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is it that guyz lead to a relationship failure coz all girls say iz it waz his fault? this girl i'm going out with is all so paranoid about every thing i say n she was in a relationship previously where the guy used her so she keeps comparing me to her n its really gettin me angry, n as the man i have to blame for everything yet i dont even complain when she mplans a meet then doesnt show. so whose fault is it?

November 10, 2005
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Alanex,

Try not to focus on who's fault it is because this will lead you to start focusing on the score board of who's making the relationship fail rather than the actual relationship itself.

You mentioned you don't even "complain" about your girls actions and the comparisons she makes 2wrds you with her ex. Well honey if you son't say anything how on earth is this girl going to know when to zip it. With all honesty you need to have a deep and meanigful chat with your girl. Explain the situation to her then express the way it makes you feel ie jelous, angry, bitter etc.

Nobody likes to be compared to, especially compared to someone who has left a massive scar on another person. So your reaction is normal but you need to communicate and not sit their in silence and just cop it on the chin. Even if your known to be a paitent guy eventually weeks,months,years or whatever goes by and your going to flip it over the smallest thing this girl has done to you. So don't run from confronting someone. If you don't tell her she won't know whats shes doing wrong and will just keep on doing it.

Just one other thing: When your girl compares you, are they negative comparisons or positive comparisons. If positive i would be a little weary as maybe she is still hooked on this person, if they are constantly negative then you need to help her heal, if it continues then she needs to heal herself!

Good luck hope this helps.

Mysti

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