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reality check
May 26, 2005
4:01 pm
white unicorn
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Hi everybody, I am amased by all the life stories you share on this pages.What colorful realities,ha?
I am codependent woman, 27.All my relationships are based on more or less subtle manipulative control, mothering my partners, being very bad at expresing myself under preasure, cant handle authoroty without projecting my parents on to them...the whole bunch of million pieces that create my everyday.
Oh yes, and the resistance to have fun. I mean, how ridicoulous can one get???I have Definately some denial issues, anger issues, depressions, hold back love, needines, craving for ???
Luckily lately I am able to see much more through it.But still...just yesterday I had to finish a 6 months relationship cause I just couldnt be with myself anymore.But easily all over him.Who is wonderful heart men, and also a needy victim.hmmmm...
What I wonder is how to get it christal clear for myself what I do, where do I go astray, when do I start compromising myself?
I am reading Melodys book, and I ask myself: isnt there any way to deal with this with a partner?
I know, I should really check what Im benefiting in a relationship, and yes, I have difficulties in seeing through my own Rescue pattern, but...most of my addiction comes when Im in a relationship, and this guy is also doing his emotional work in a great school that I finished in december (2.5 years of good looking into myself).

Do I think that it is possible or is it a waste of time and one day this coda will just be gone and my prince will be there?

And by the way...I am also confussed about my sexuality.Intimacy.
And I talk a lot for the first time...

love to you all dearest

May 26, 2005
7:20 pm
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White Unicorn, Wow! Did you describe me or you? I just wanted to respond to the intimacy comment. I'm not sure exactly what you mean, but I'll tell you that although my husband and I (forgive me for being straight forward here) enjoy climax; I feel very uncomfortable with intimacy - foreplay. I haven't a clue why that is? Most women do enjoy that part, and not the actually "act". Okay, maybe I stand alone here - or it's not what you're talking about at all! I'm a little embarrassed; crazy huh? We're all anonymous here! Silly me! ~saralynn

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