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February 22, 2005
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I need help from anyone that is a teacher that can give me the process. I have not been in the field for almost 10 years and don't know of any changes. Help quick!

February 22, 2005
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Changes regarding what.....I'm in the special education field, and have been for 20 years. I'd be glad to help with whatever it is you need to know....fire away.

February 22, 2005
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she tells the teacher. Taecher talks to principal. the teacher calls a lady from social services in to talk to Jigs. right?
then what?

February 22, 2005
10:32 pm
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ready: come on the thread and I am going to introduce you to her and she saw your post and you tell her the process unless you think that's not good.

February 22, 2005
10:34 pm
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ready you here?

February 22, 2005
10:35 pm
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Ready

you know my STBX is a teacher and he talked about this sort of thing. They get the principle involved woth the school counselor and or school social worker. Any teacher or medical field person is required to report any suspicion of abuse or neglect. We need to find out the stae she lives in and can go on line and look up the statues if needed?

February 22, 2005
10:36 pm
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The state she lives in***

February 22, 2005
10:37 pm
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you ok to talk to her if I need you?

February 22, 2005
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mama

you want to intor me or else drop my name from the board? Your choice

February 22, 2005
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Mama, I assume you're referring to the "confused" thread....

so, if that's the case, your scenario may not necessarily be the order of events. If she tells any school personnel, they are mandated reporters in most states. That means they have to file a report with the Division of Family Services. That means there would be an investigation, and she may possibly have to talk to a social worker.

I have worked in schools where any abuse report was to be handled by the school counselor, though, and some counselors don't follow up on certain allegations. So DFS never gets involved. It's a tricky situation. I know she has told her mom, and her mom isn't ready to handle this so it probably won't be dealt with unless she tells someone at school. Does she live with the grandpa? It sounds like he does, and that situation is not good.

Aside from reporting the abuse to DFS, there isn't much other action a teacher at school can take to help her in this situation, except to offer support and counseling to her. And, like I said, if she tells this information to a teacher at school, they are mandated to report it.

February 22, 2005
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That is my understnding of this as you stated, ready. Yes, she means the "confused" thread

Thanks for being here

February 22, 2005
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Do we have her go ahead and tell the teacher then?

February 22, 2005
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Ready,

From what I have seen in Wis, they would take this very seriously as inservices and the law has taught teachers well on the subject. They would not let this pass by. But that is Wis. A state like Arkansas could be more relaxed (from my family experiences there)

February 22, 2005
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i feel strongly she needs to tell someone else besides mom, who seems to not be handling this well. she needs to tell someone else, as she is afraid and this channel of communication is our only line to this child. What is your thought on this, Ready?

February 22, 2005
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does she live with mom or does grandpa live with them?

What state does she live in?

February 22, 2005
10:51 pm
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Ready? You there?

February 22, 2005
10:54 pm
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She's startin to panic. We might lose her. How much do I tell her. Do I go on w/ the social worker and then they will talk to grampa and tell him to stop?
answer quick

February 22, 2005
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the art teacher....she needs trust she trusts her she will have to wait until school returns

February 22, 2005
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ok. do I tell her the process or let's stop it here and let the art teacher tell her.

February 22, 2005
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stop, too much infor for her.....reassurrance now so she will come back

what time will she be able to come back tommarrow she is tired and beddtime?

February 22, 2005
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February 22, 2005
10:59 pm
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jigs

you said you trust and like your art teacher miss linsdey.........

February 22, 2005
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ok,,,, that is good that you have been taight by your mom not to give out that information. That is ok....

February 22, 2005
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can I drop by and say hello ?

if not, that is fine, no problem, your call

February 22, 2005
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OK, I hope I didn't blow it.

She is eastern time zone.

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