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September 7, 2002
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Well, it's been a while, and I miss all my old friends here. Thought I would give you an update. I've been seeing and talking with a "friend" in Tucson for almost four months now. She and I are taking it very slow....a little hand holding, a little kissing....that's it. We really like, respect, share the same values and enjoy talking about everything, including our ex's and where we've been. Meantime, my ex lives about three blocks away, and we continue to share my daughters every other week. I bought her our of the house, refi, and have her off the deed, it's just mine. She has been "friendly" and so forth, but I see through her personality and deciet, while she continues to see her "just friend" which she was seeing years while we were married, unbeknown to me. So there she sits, trying to figure out her life, and I feel pretty good about just taking things slowly, but wanting to explore potential with my friend. I my friend is on the same page here, wanting to explore further, but slowly. I can't believe it's been over a year and a half since my ex blindsided me by telling me she didn't want to be married, and we have been separated for over a year now. I'm pretty well determined to file in March, for divorce, since then my medical insurance won't go through the roof. Meantime, my ex tells me her boss ask if we will ever get back together, and she says her mother thinks sometime down the road, "we'll find each other again." I don't think so......but that's her fantasy world she lives in, just like the one she created with this whole situation and her "just male friend". For now, I'm working and focusing on me. I miss all my friends here, and had to say hi.......Randy

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Hi Randy! Good to hear from you and that you are doing so well! Good for you! So...........she's been seeing him for years huh? That figures, doesn't it? Oh well, let her examine her navel, who gives a rat's behind? Just glad you're over the hump here and taking one day at time, exploring possibilities and just "moving on". Let her think whatever she's going to think if it makes her feel better right? Nice dream world. Live in it by yourself!

We're all fine here, just meandering along in life. People should be writing soon to you. We've missed you, old friend! Funny, once you're outa the nest you just buzz around like crazy, don't you? LOL! You're not that far from me, so don't get too big fer yer britches over there. Don't make me go psycho auntie on you! Keep in touch with all of us and just "keep doin' what you're doing". Damned proud of you, yes I am!!! And poke your nose in to try and give some male advice to whatever men you see on this site. They could use you. Too many hens here. We need men and their adice to men and perspective on things. Hug your girls for me and I know they are doing well. I don't even have to ask. They may waver some, but overall, they will do well. Good to hear from you!

September 7, 2002
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Hey Randy! Great to see you are doing so well!

September 8, 2002
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Gingerleigh and Ladeska,
Ah, my two trusted amgias.......I would be more than happy to give any kind of male perspective to anyone wanting it.....just point the way.
Hope you guys are doing well too during this journey..........Still traveling, now to Pacific Northwest, Southwest (including Tucson of course where my friend is that I met, through one of my accounts) Colorado and Utah. Loving it, while being with my girls every other week as well. The best of both worlds right now.....I miss all of you......Randy

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