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Praise God Almighty!
November 21, 2001
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i hear ya blondie it's so true...I could totally see my ex in 20 yrs. like your ex...it's so sad... Your story was kind of funny though what a loser...Sometimes i'm convinced all the hail mary's and our fathers couldn't save some people...
and as far as therapy is concerned he's waisting his time and so is she because he has to WANT to be there and it sounds like he's a liar and it's all an act with him... I believe in one of your previous threads you have a new man what's he like???

November 21, 2001
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Sounds like "turn the page on the same old book", same con man, different con. They all do the "I've found God routine at some point". I think it's in the Con Handbook somewhere.... 3rd or 4th chapter I think, forget the page no.... He's just bored...decided to turn a new trick and see what kinda mileage it can get out of this one.

I'd completely ignore it. Not like you really "care" anyways, right? The guy's a pig. Time to not even give him that much of yourself - to even vomit over. If it was true - good for him and after the smoke clears - the proof will be in the pudding. My guess is - he just needed a distraction while he really does something nasty.

November 21, 2001
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WOW blondie! good catch!!! (from what i've read from u so far, its about time u had some good news!...and a good man 😛 )

November 21, 2001
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I love reading your threads Blondie, you're such an inspiration! Hopefully, I'll find a great guy someday soon. Not that being on my own isn't great, I truly enjoy it. But it does get a little "lonely" if ya know what I mean 😉 Anyway, you have a great Thanksgiving! I'm really excited because I finally get to get together with my two sisters the day after and just shop, go to lunch and hang out. Just the three of us, none of their kids tagging along! I love 'em all, but I need some sister time. Have a good one.

November 27, 2001
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Blondie,

I just read about your man he sounds awesome...You really did turn your life around. I know all this pain and suffering will pay off in the long run...

"One day in retrospect the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful."
-----Sigmund Freud

I have to believe that saying is true. It's funny because i think your ex is similar in so many ways to mine.. i'm sure he was a GUIDO...obviously that's all i'm attracted to, not trying to stereotype but it's hard to find a nice one. Some day i will grow out of this phase... Why can't i just meet a nice wall street type that would be sweet...Nope not me i need a rough neck, someone who treats me like crap and i do everything for. My friend gave me great advice she said she got through a break-up by always imagining the ball in her court, that her ex was sitting home sobbing over her..Always think you've got the one-up..well i'm trying... i miss the a-hole tons but that's exactly what he is trash...

Atleast you met your prince charming maybe there's one out there for me...Wishful thinking!!!

November 27, 2001
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Blondie,

I just want to let you know that I am a Christian but many, many people use religion as a new mask. If you have changed, you don't have to announce it, people will notice your spirit and ask you "are you a Christian?"
My ex-boyfriend was supposed to be religious. It was still a manipulative tactic. His purpose was to put up a fake fecade to get some people on his side of the game. Many people get religious for different reasons. Many people seek God and try to use and manipulate Him also. Dumb huh? Same game different name.

November 27, 2001
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oh my gosh you said your ex was italian/irish so was my ex.. he had the worst temper and as i have stated many a time, totally abusive...

did your ex-have a son maybe i was dating him Haha....

November 27, 2001
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Hey Blondie------- so he found God, you didn't say born again, is it Muslim? I think we could sign him and a few others I know of for the Taliban, I hear they need replacements, and we know what is going to happen to them. Go figure, I have seen many addicts go that way, some its for real, and Bless them that they have found a positive addiction, the others, just found a new market, know what I mean? That is what is so great about believing in a higher power, karma works, and our God, knows the real from the fake, I dont' know if we pay in life, or after life, but we pay for our sins. Its really great when we can let go and let God. Sybil who doesn't believe, often gets real scared, seems like every time he sets out to harm me, in some way that doesn't really God gets him. I just sit back listen to his story and say you'll learn not to mess with me, I have some really powerful connections, its often erie, but I love it. Thought about that santamaria stuff, but I was fearful of evil intent, and its paid off, my angels really have a way about them.

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