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pls help me=(
May 24, 2006
3:09 pm
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hey ppl...im new here n i really need ur help n advice. as u guys know about my nickname,so that was what my major problem in my life since i was born until now, i am so sick of being me. ive got no friends in my life because i am so shy n not talkative type of person. my life is empty n ive got no topics to talk when im around with new pll n even with my family. ppl make jokes on me because of my weirdy attitude. yeah i admit that i am a neard. pls help me how to improve myself so that i can get along with ppl, get lots of friends n live normal life like others.

May 24, 2006
3:20 pm
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Hi! Welcome to AAC! I am sorry you are feeling so much pain caused by others' attitudes about you. I think, though, that to feel better you have to feel better about yourself. You have interests, strengths and positive qualities just like everyone else. Think about those things you like to do, even if it is as simple as reading. If you love to read, join a book club. If you love to dance, take dance lessons. If you are into computers, take a computer class. Then you will meet people who like the same things you do.

I think "nerd" is a terrible term, and I hate when my kids use it. We all have different interests, and that is what makes the world interesting.

I think you have to love yourself first...find something you are interested in and go with it. Even if you only meet one person who has the same interests as you, it will be a start!!! I'm glad you are here!

May 24, 2006
3:30 pm
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Hi neardy,
u r lucky to be on this site you would not have any problem in getting frineds. The only thing you would have to do is make the first move n ask for being a friend, then you know how people react to it.
if u r shy then open up yourself. talk to people about urself n tell them what you expect n wat you feel about. if u think you cant make friends then surely you will not . make a point to share your feeling with a reliable person.
make sure the person is trust worthy or it may turn the other way round.

even the u dont have any one to talk to then still keep trying.
you will surely get a good friend.
its better to have 1 or 2 dear n close friends than having 10- 50 just friend .
it does make a difference.

if you are not having any topic to talk about start with your studies or about any thing visible at that time thoughts will automatically flow out of your mind.

All the best.. hope u make great friends in life.

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