November 10, 2016
I am 32 year man living and working in Australia for last 5 years, I got married in February last year which was arranged marriage. I was not interested in marriage, however following typical Indian culture, my parents forced me into this marriage threatening they would commit suicide and break all relations with me in future.
Post marriage, the relation between my wife/ in laws and my parents slowly spoiled and my wife started living with her parents and working in her home town, meanwhile I started processing her visa here. There has been regular disputes between
me and my wife since we got married, Every month I have to contact my in-laws about her anger, rough speech and behavior. even she has admitted that she looses her control many times gets angry.
My in-laws did not do much to make my wife understand or change her behavior and when I discussed everything to my parents, they are something in front of me and on my back they are different people, Both parents are in complete favor of my wife. My parents just focus on salvaging their pride and respect in society, rather showing any concern to my future life.
I have been going through this pain for long time, many times I felt to give up this life but could not move forward. I have been working three jobs day and night and living alone, I have house loan back home and my wife & my parents also dependent on me for everything. My wife has been working for more than a year but she never bothers to support me anyway financially or emotionally and many times she raised questions on my character too.
I seriously feel cursed in this life from parental and family life happiness, My parents have been dominating towards me for their choices over the years and now my wife following same pattern. My parents are old and alone and don't have anyone to support them, looking at their situation, I always have given up things on them hoping they would understand me but every time I get heart & end up being stupid person because of my emotional nature.
My parents have played lot of mind games with me with their dual face which has hurt me the most. Everyday I cry and say sorry to myself for this situation I am in. Because laws every where in world in favor of women, I feel kind of helpless and hopeless in this situation even I suffering.
My Parents are old, they would need me always and I want to stand by them always also I do not want to spoil my wife's future, but I am not happy either. Neither of them supporting my fortune, rather they take my emotions and faith for granted.
Please help me - where my future heading ?
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