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P&L,, need an update
August 24, 2006
10:48 pm
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P&L, I have been worried about you and just need to know how you are doing before I go to bed.

You said the nicest things to me on the diet thread. Almost cried, not really a crier. (learned to repress tears long ago)
I keep wondering if I am so nice, where in the heck are the caring people in my life. I tend to hook on with selfish or very busy people. Had a bad day, but I am sure not as bad as yours.

(((P&L)))

August 25, 2006
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Thanks, hunny! Took the day off. WAs sick. Did nothing about my situation, based on my fears and intuition. Heard nothing. I stayed home. needed to sleep and relax. Think my fever is down.

Didn't mean to make u cry. Think of your diet to express beautiful self on the outside. Be the person you want to show the world. I think one reason I am skinny, is that is how I view myself.

I bet you can do it.

Thanks for checking on me. How do u feel? xoxox, P&L

August 25, 2006
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please check on me tomorrow. I heard nothing. When I do, things will get worse, but I was glad to just relax and take a break today.

August 25, 2006
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I am glad you got a break. Physically, I feel much better than earlier this week. Mentally, not too good. I am really getting sick of it too.

Just having a down night. Embarrassed my stupid codep. self at work, husband-wife argument, one child having a pity party, and mostly feeling terribly alone and lonely inside.

August 25, 2006
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Gonna try and go to sleep. Really lacking on sleep, but have a hard time when my mind is troubled. Just have too much built up w/no solutions. I will check on you tomorrow. Sweet dreams, gg

August 25, 2006
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Sorry to hear u have so much on your mind. I know what you mean about having trouble sleeping when u have a lot on your mind. Hang in there.

I had to take a break. I am much more relaxed. I actually don't know if I can go back to the worry. I look so exhausted, pale, tired and thin in pictures that it disturbs me. I just can't keep this up. I need to take care of myself.

August 25, 2006
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P&L, I am checking in on you today.
To try and get over my slump, I poured a lot of energy into my job and worked 10 hours today. Then I came home and started cleaning out a closet. I also took out the journal I got when I started my 3-time counseling visits and poured out what was bothering me. That helped, but what hurt was going back and reading what I was going through from March to May. Overall, stuck in the same problems. Well, I tried my best today.

Enough about me, how are you, my little thin friend?

August 26, 2006
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thanks, gg, I posted on a new thread about making an exit

Thanks for checking on me.

Hey, I am sorry to hear about your hurt. Sometimes we get in a rut, because we cannot figure out how to solve something. I have had this same work problem for a year. Although I could view like I have not made progress and it has gotten worse, in other ways, I have grown so much. It has forced me to think about my boundaries and who I am, what I will tolerate, and how I want to treat others. I have had so many realizations through all this pain. Maybe you have gained in some special way, as well, though you are still experiencing your same problems. Nothing is completely static. That which does not kill us makes us stronger, in some way, at least. Yes, it can beat us down in others. I know you are a kind person and I bet you your struggles have had a silver lining somehow and brought you some gift somewhere. It certainly brought me a gift. It brought you to me.

Focus on all your talents and the love you offer this world. We need you.

Love, P&L

August 26, 2006
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Hey P&L - are you making some changes with your situation at work? I haven't read the other threads but know what you were dealing with before. Do you see any solutions in the near future?

August 26, 2006
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P&L, why can't there be a real P&L in my life? You brought up a good point about gaining something through the pain...going to have think on that.

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