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Physical Abuse
May 29, 2015
5:49 am
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I've been in a wonderful relationship the past 4 and half years and we have two beautiful children. But last 2yrs have had alot of ups and downs. I had slapped my other half when we got into a argument and felt soo terrible afterwards but I wouldn't let him know how I felt. We have been through alot with his family interfering in our relationship since day one and bringing drugs into our home ( that's when the trouble started). I don't agree on abusive people at all I'm against it but I've slapped my partner and It's not right. I hate myself for it. See we argue because of money and family as i explained before. And I've been usual type walk away and talk later when we calmed down. Listen to music helps me. But please tell me why I hit.? Is because He was pushing me to my limits or is because his family brought drugs in my house and he blames me for not having his family in his life. My partner chose myself and my kids over his mum and step dad over the drug incident. Also I've developed Depression since my niece was killed. Thought i might add that cause I don't know why things happen by me slapping my partner has happened. . Might add my partner isn't perfect but his one on million and he doesn't deserve what's happend... . Please help I'm lost and not sure how fix my problem hope this made sense. I'm upset as I'm writing it..

June 1, 2015
4:55 am
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You think violence is a way of punishment when it's not. It might be best to consult a counselor or therapist who can best help you with your problems.

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