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November 12, 2004
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Yep, I know this person. He is my husband. I also, printed this one out and kept it with me.

I read it everytime I think about calling, emailing or connecting with my narcissist.

Thanks for the handy reference guide.

November 14, 2004
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In my case, I believe this person knew what he was doing from the first time he ever spoke to me. In fact, I believe he had watched me and saw that I was alone with my dog. Now I realize this after remembering comments he'd made. I had a sticker on my car, an AA slogan, so what did he talk about right from the start. How he was an alcoholic. Right away he used the common interest to lure me. He had been observing in my opinion. He was used to working with many people so he knew people plus he had done this many times before. At one point he even told me he didn't want to hurt me emotionally as he broke up with someone before who had a breakdown after that. This was mentioned to me when we were on good terms. I suppose for me to look back and feel that he said "I told you so." Thankfully, my intuition paid off and a Higher Power showed me what was happening and thankfully I feel like I'm healing from it.

November 14, 2004
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November,

I think they know exactly what they are doing.

Remember Ted Bundy? He didn't just accidentally juat put on a fake cast on his leg and accidentaly trick his victims into gettng close enough to overpower. He had a plan. Lots of plans.

In my mind, the only difference between a narcissist and a psychopath is that a narcissist is psychopath who is sometimes foolish enough to admit their grandiosity. And a psychopath is a narcissist who sometimes is dumb enough to get caught.

People withhout empathy or conscience are capable of anything.

Nobody fucks somebody over by accident.

Only a rare NPD, when everythong has gone to shit for them, i.e., prison, will admit that their problem is indeed a problem.

November 14, 2004
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He's just sitting back reading all of our responses and getting a good laugh. Sick bastard. Get some help.

November 15, 2004
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hahahahaha Leilei that post gave me a really good giggle. I see a lot of us women on this site have gone out with the same man!!!!

I'm going to print it out and stick it on my bathroom mirror. 🙂

November 15, 2004
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WD, I have to thank you for your comments because it makes sense to me now that in other areas of my life where I was taken, they really did know what they were doing and had really planned it. I should not be shocked now that they have no conscience about how they treat me now. I had not seen it this way before, but I thought about what you said here and now I see that even if its your own family doing this if they have no conscience about things then you just have to see it for what it is. I have noticed many times how easily they've allowed me to take blame for things and I know thats easier on them then as they don't have to do their own work on themselves as I've had to do and am still working on myself.

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