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People-pleasing
February 22, 2006
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I discovered that what I go through in life is not as important as how I interpret the experience. In other words, I have a choice about my attitude. For instance, I always expected my happiness to come though others, ispecially my addict partner. I spent most of my life waiting for them to show their love and approval in a way I could understand. They didn't and I felt deprived and unlovable as a result. By working a step program I have learned that I am lovable, regardless of what a parent or anyone else thinks. I can either feel sorry for what I have missed or I can appreciate the chance to learn to love and appreciate myself. I do some of both, but today I know I have a choice.

It's time to stop waiting for others to take care of me. The only person who can love me the way I want to be loved is me.

February 22, 2006
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way to go pinkpaw!!!!!!i hope u have a fantastic day!!:)

February 22, 2006
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Thanks for sharing your Wisdom! It is so true. My attitude determines my altitude!

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