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August 22, 2000
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tulip
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I have a huge problem I need help with my parents hate my boyfriend and have told me that they can't have a relationship with me and my daughter if I move in with this guy ( I had lived with him for 5 years previously and know live with my parents) I love this guy and want to make it work but I also love my parents too talking to them is like talking to a brick wall I feel so weak and confused it's like I am damned if I do and damned if I dont can someone help me before I lose my mind?

August 22, 2000
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It sounds like your parents fear the same problem that caused you to leave him before, and its their way of protecting them selves from pain and disappointment even if it is yours. How come no ring and date? Where is the committment in this picture? What has changed that makes you want to go back?

August 23, 2000
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Well Molly he did give me a ring back in Feb but during that time I also lost my sister in a car crash so I gave it back the committment has always been there on his side it's my side that has been off. I really do not want to lose this guy though I just feel pressured I am sure that my parents are afraid of losing me as well maybe thats why they are holding on what do you think?

August 23, 2000
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Bingo, number one reason to go starke raving mad, make no sense for years, and can't even imagine the pain. Is it just the two children, you and your sister? That would put a great deal of pressure on you, and regardless of your relationship, such a beautiful distraction a grandchild. I being the crazy woman that I am, could see ripping out the phone line, and installing bars on the doors and windows. Unfortunately life goes on, the living must live. I recently lost my mother, and my sis and I were talking about how amazingly different death effects us all, and some times how long it takes to effect us. There are basically 7 stages to grief, and it takes its time, and toll. I am sure that loosing your sister has had its effect on you too. I am so sorry. Did your folks get along with your fella before the break up and death? Was the death of your sis the cause of your break up? Is he a good guy? seeing the baby on a regular basis? keeping in touch with the folks? How about you are you working ? why do you not committ to the man you made a child with ? What is the reason to not make a family, and work together for the child?

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