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August 14, 2001
2:34 pm
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This is my first time posting here....I found this site doing homework for a class. I thought I might as well share a little of my own stress for some advice. I just moved across country to help my sister out and also to leave a rather troubling relationship. I found an old boyfriend during my transition and we have since then become very close. I have not cut all ties from my former boyfriend as we are still good friends just realized that he had issues about my race that i was not willing to tolerate. I am of mixed races black and white....and he was black.

My current boyfriend, however did not have such an easy breakup with his girlfriend. It was very dramatic. They were splitting up when i came into the picture so natually she felt i was the reason he was leaving.

Well it has been almost a year and now he has asked if i would have a problem if they were in touch. I shouldn't because i am in touch on a very rare basis, but still in touch with my old boyfriend. via email about school issues. But i have a feeling she has ulterior motives. His birthday is coming up and she has asked him to help her set up her computer. Now she set it up before and does have a boyfriend, but is calling on him. They have been emailing jokes and what not, and she has kept him abreast of issues that they have a mutual interest in, and this has been going on for several months but i am just hearing about it...because she has now asked for his help. I have a feeling that she may just want to spend time with him around his birthday since last year he did not....I am feeling paranoid and many years ago i probably would have blown up. I trust him (I think) but knowing how women can be i do not trust the timing of this so called need for help.

August 14, 2001
4:09 pm
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You sound like you are maturing well.

If you demand that he never be touch with the other girl what do you gain?

And what if he doesn't meet your demands?

You need to be secure with you...if their relationship is going to rebloom...there is not a lot you can do to stop it except make yourself more miserable.

If the two of you are meant to be...it'll happen, if not sooner or later you will each have to go your separate ways.

Cherish you!!!!

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