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Pain is overwhelming today ...
June 27, 2007
3:13 pm
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bmom74
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Hi, everyone. I have written about my roommate (I am also in love with him), how he has taken advantage of me, how I have asked him to move out, etc. So, for those of you who have read those posts, you are familiar with the story. Even though I asked him to leave, he has not stayed at the house for the last two nights and it is killing me. My mind is running rampant today with all kinds of things like did he stay with another woman, has he had another women all along, etc. It is just almost overwhelming. I know this pain will eventually pass but, in the meantime, how do I deal with it? I am about to go crazy today even though I know, in the long run, this is the best thing. Thanks.

June 27, 2007
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bmom...Sorry for your pain. I understand about the pain. All I can say is keep posting, keep busy, say the serenity prayer as often as you need to. Go get in a good work out it really helps with the anxiety. Like you said, this too shall pass. Hang in there.

June 27, 2007
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Unfortunately, the only way through it is to experience the feelings. It is painful but it does get better a little bit at a time. I've been there and my friends who had also experiecned would say "it takes time". I hated that but its true. What worked for me was staying busy, being around people as much as possible and exercising. Hand in there you can do this although it is hard.

June 27, 2007
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It will get better, so tell yourself this a thousand times a day. You did the best for yourself, even if it doesn't feel that way right now. Yeah stay busy and cry when you need to. I remember crying at work sometimes and I could barely concentrate at work. But it does pass even if it never feels like it, it does. The jerk disappears, really he does. Wait and see!

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