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P.O'd having a nervous breakdown
June 4, 2006
12:45 pm
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I have officially lost my marbles.My husband ignored me and treated me like I didn't exist yesterday all because I did not consult him first about babysitting my best friend's kids.I took 4 little girls to the local park to play in a fountain,and he decided this was his opportunity to have what seems to be a big ol' self satisfaction party here yesterday while I was gone.I would not have even found out about it,except for when I decided to use the computer to play music to clean the house by,the last thing played came on.It was mortifying and disgusting,and I am beside myself.I don't want lies or excuses,I want answers,and he will probably not give me any.It'll be the same thing,I did something wrong,so now this is my punishment,unspokenly telling me he feels I am too ugly to live,and too stupid to stay with him...HELP!!

June 4, 2006
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Sometimes peole we love mistreat us. That is one of the most crazymaking things in the world. The "No Good Deed Goes Unpunished" treatment is one of the worst.

If your husband thinks you are "too ugly to live" and "too stupid to stay with him" then your husband is a very sick person, and you need to protect yourself.

I think you could use the support of a friend right now and suggest that it is a good idea for you to call somebody you trust and talk things over. Being alone with abuse can make you feel like you are going crazy. But running it by a third person can help you see that you are not the one with the problem Except the problem of being married to a jerk.

June 4, 2006
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After having a 2 1/2 long conversation/arguement with him,I have come to the realization that I am at a loss.I can tell anyone where to go,how to get there,and draw them a map to hell when I want to,but not him.No matter what I say,think,or do,I have the words in my head and they come out as babble.He once again has justified porn to me as I am the one he works for and comes home to,and I should stop mentally and emotionally babysitting him.Now,I have been made into the control freak,the instigator,and to top it off,now I am being a nutjob due to hormonal imbalance and being premenstrual.I don't feel this way any other time,so why start the same arguement over again he asks.Because he has no regard for my feelings,morals,or value,...that's why.

June 4, 2006
5:40 pm
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Leave him...can you?

June 5, 2006
12:28 am
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OMW,
I would LOVE to leave,but I have discussed in earlier threads how my parents are my only source of money or refuge next to my husband,and my dad "turns me in" to my husband every time I have left before,claiming I am no longer my father's responsibility.My mother argues this point with tell your dad to go to hell and you are staying with me,but he eventually makes her so miserable that she says maybe you should try again.My mother kind of keeps me prisoner here so to speak.I am not a native to where I live,and have never regarded here as "home".I want to go back to where I was born and always felt like I was someone and felt good,but my mother gives me these crying jags and guilt trips about how I'm "taking her babies"...meaning my 2 daughters.So I stay and am made completely miserable by the 3 people who claim to love me.
My husband can be sweet,kind,gentle,and one thing that never seems to waiver is his love for his children.He told me today that I am being irrational as to my fear that porn one day will lead to his infidelity.If he was going to be unfaithful,he would have already,and he knows the difference between fantasy and reality.He claims he does not want me try to compete with the girls he gawks at,because they are only a picture and he is in love with me...a real person.He admits to watching videos and looking at pictures,but still wants to believe I am the stupidest person alive,because he denies posting profiles about himself on personals and adult sex sites.I happen to have read his profiles on these sites,and he for a change,tells the truth about himself,and tells that he is a married man looking for discreet encounters and 3 ways with other couples.But,he looked me square in the eye and says all porn sites are linked together somehow,and that's how they got his info,based on his viewing criteria.This is not a possibility,as far as I know.

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