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Opinions... ex-bf friend-what would you do?
March 20, 2004
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k... Here's the deal:

ex-bf had this childhood friend who used to call our house (the house in which i once lived) all the time. i would always encourage bf to call him back and ask him over. this "friend" really wanted to be bf's close friend, but bf thought he was a loser.

i like this friend, he's a really nice guy. I always wanted him to come over because he was so lonely and wanted company. he was nice company i thought. bf thought otherwise and never returned his calls.

i don't want to make bf jealous or anything devious like that. frankly i don't think he'd care. tonight i'm thinking about calling said friend and asking him to a movie. i want company and i think he needs friends. am i preying on the innocent here?

March 20, 2004
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I'm confused ... you say ex-bf, then bf... are we talking about two people or one?

Frankly, if you like the friend, & think he's nice... why would you be preying on an innocent? You aren't planning anything devious... I would be honest with him though and tell him its just as friends only. (or could a romance possibly blossom???)

If you have a current BF, then talk to him first out of respect for his feelings. If this guy is your ex-BF, he shouldn't really have any say in it UNLESS he can tell you specifically why this other man should be avoided (is he a user type).

I hope this helps.

March 20, 2004
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it's the bf i broke up with not long ago. he's his friend... thanks!

March 20, 2004
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Just called... and he's dating someone! ok, God is speaking to me...

March 20, 2004
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Were you looking at him for friendship, or more?

March 21, 2004
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My first thought was for friendship.

March 21, 2004
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and was there a secret second thought?

Who knows... maybe if his situation changes, he'll be the one calling you.

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