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Online Woes? Or Much Ado About Nothing?
May 14, 2010
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No it isn't ok for me. I never said it was. In fact I think it is worse. I have daughters I do not want them seeing that. Granted they didn't. But I was stupid and hurt and for some reason I lost the fact I am not like that.

May 14, 2010
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Hi D-Dog,

It looks to me like he was trying to pick up other women, and he is pissed off that you busted him.

I would dump his cheating ass.

May 14, 2010
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So these women who you think so ill of aren't somehow going through something like you are?

Its ok for you cause your having a hard time in life...well why do you think women do this? I will tell you why...cause they want love and acceptance and seek it out....

Most women who do this were raped or molewsted or had no male role model who loved them...I know that was the case for most girls I knew...

They were called whores and tramps and many went on yto drugs to try to heal their pain...one girl I knew got called slut so many times she tried to kill herself...

Btw...you knew what you wrote here would hurt someone...don't insult me ansd tell me you did not kbow that...

Did you read the thread csl on here posted...I know this hurt her...I am sure others whi read here but never post were hurt too.

And I do not care if I am removed from here...that is the last thing I ever care to post here ever again...

I do not take lightly this subject...it further abuses women and their struggles to overcome abuse.

May 14, 2010
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Ladies all I can say is I am sorry for my ignorance. Thats really all I got. I didn't think. For that I am sorry. It shows that I just don't know.

I know that I have not experienced what most of ya'll have. While I saw a lot and heard a lot as a kid that knowledge left me.

If you think I am one of those pigs then ok. I give you that. I got out of hand, but I stopped because I didn't like what I did. IF you think I am proud of what has happened recently you are mistaken. It has been a shame.
I thank you for reminding me how much of an asshole I have been with it all when I did that.

That is not the kind of person I was,am or hope to be. Yes I did mess up. We all mess up in life. I know what I said was judgmental. I can only say that was my ignorance.

May 14, 2010
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billy99 - I myself was not offended by your comments. You were just expressing a male perspective to the subject and you honest opinion.

BFG - Are you doing okay? It seems like lately I see you on a lot of threads and you seem to be really sensitive to what you read. He was expressing a male perspective and you called him a hypocrite for it. THought there was no name calling or finger pointing here. Whatever is hurting you I hope you are able to find some peace. You shouldn't take the general comments so personally.

Imho he is right, that is how it is. If a girl gives it away too easily the guy assumes she gives it to everyone and if she dresses as if she is walking the street, not really the kind of girl they want to take home to mom. He was just stating what has become fact in our culture. Men sleep around and they are studs, women do it and they are whores. I'm not saying it is right, but it is the way it has been for a long time. I lost more boyfriends for holding out, but in the end I still had my self respect.

Sorry I guess I hijacked this thread. D-Dog---If I were you I would listed to those here who have been there and done that. Sounds like there are a lot of red flags with this guy so just get out before it is too late. Someone better is out there for you.

May 14, 2010
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He called a lot of women sluts...um that is name calling....I pointed that out and that makes me wrong..m

Sc....please intervene here.

May 14, 2010
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Again with the sc bfg?? He didn't call anyone a slut. He said, dressed like sluts, that is different. Sorry if I offended you. Was not my intention. I am truly worried about you. Did not mean to offend, but you seem quick to jump on others words, but then get so easily upset by comments in return.

Again, I am sorry, would not ever want to intentionally hurt anyone here. Guess I will just keep my thoughts too myself since I seem to be rocking the steady boat.

May 14, 2010
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Why are you implying that something is wrong with me?

You been all over these boards anton zing me...why?

May 14, 2010
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I'm sorry if you feel that way. It is in no way my intention to antagonize anyone, I was just concerned. Again I am sorry and I will refrain from commenting on any threads where you have posted. Certainly don't want to upset you.

May 14, 2010
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Really...come on you could of fooled me...honest to god do you really think I would think you are concerned about me...um...your trying to make me seem as if their is something wrong with me...not the first time someone has done this kinda of thing to me...

I was offended as many good people I know had their lives ruined by people who sit in jusdgement of others...

Let's not rewrite what has been said here...

Honestly I am done here...this site is not very healing to me...except for the liberation side where I found good hearted people..too much judgemeent and twisting the obvvious here.

I am finished...so go ahead and paint me however you want...I know the truth and so do you.

May 14, 2010
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bfg - Again, I am sorry to have offended you. That is not the kind of person I am. I am genuinely concerned about you, but you are free to feel about me how you choose That is the problem with typed words on a screen, you can't really see the emotion or concern behind the words.

I know in my own life when I am all over the place with my thoughts and emotions and easily wounded by others it usually means I am going through something.

Sorry to have implied that anything was "wrong" with you. Just wondered if you were needing some support and/or encouragement about something. I don't really know what more I can say. There are only so many ways to say I am sorry. So, one last time, I am sorry. I wish you well.

May 14, 2010
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Worried Dad!

You're still here!! Thank God!

And thanks - 100% correct as always...

May 14, 2010
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D Dog and Others
I want to sincerely apologize for my comments. I did not mean to come across as a heartless ass.

D Dog
I am especially sorry for having hijacked your thread. I was trying to give my perspective to help you. But I realize in fact that I hurt you.

I am truly sorry for this.

May 15, 2010
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Billy -

are u nuts?

Nothing in this life is more important to me than human interaction.

I THANK YOU for your participation. You have contributed another perspective. There is NOTHING wrong with that.

Have a good evening and God Bless,

Dog

May 15, 2010
12:46 am
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To be honest, this was rather funny, cuz I went over to Facebook for an hour or so, and then came back to find this huge battle!! LMAO!

Not that I don't take it seriously - sure you guys will work it out...but ya gotta admit, it's kinda funny...

And God, I needed a grin tonight!!!

YOU GUYS ROCK!

((this site rocks))

May 15, 2010
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Dang.

I go out for 5 hours and return to find...A BATTLE ENSUING?

Billy,

I think you expressed a valid opinion. But you struck a nerve. Sometimes, that happens on these threads. Don't worry, ok?

BFG,

Again, (at the risk of being redundant), a nerve was struck. And that nerve is in your heart. I have noticed some of your postings (on this and other threads) in the past week or so. And I have concerns. Are you okay? I think something is troubling you. And we are banging away on your "pain triggers" without meaning to. Can you talk about it?

- Ma Strong

May 15, 2010
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BFG don't leave.Please! I am glad all was settled.I took my sleep aide and feel asleep.

I just feel that everyone had a day one of healing.And (your growth period) experience,strength and hope is greatly appreciated.

I just don't want to be kick and stroke at the same time. I think we can all get along here, there is a lot of information here, prayerfully with all our seeking, we get some understanding! God Bless everyone!!!!

May 15, 2010
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Well, the gentleman in question stopped by today of his own volition to talk to me. He is not seeing anyone else, and felt that as we had only been dating for a month that the topic was irrelevant.

We have agreed to take it day by day, with full - honest - disclosure.

However, I am holdin' back the nookie...heh heh.

May 16, 2010
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You go, Dog.

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