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OMG! Re: Proud of myself! I think I am going to be sick!!!!!!!
January 7, 2006
6:32 pm
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Feelinglost:

Yes, she is gonna have what your dream was, but, and listen, BUT they are not gonna love her like they love you coz of how this all came about. He is gonna be unhappy and blame her too. Her relationship w/ them and him will NEVER be what it was w/ you. That is just the facts.

I just truly hope they will love this innocent baby and not think of her when they look at it's face. There is no need for it to pay.

Have you ever thought that this may not even get to marriage? Or that the baby may not ever come to term?

January 7, 2006
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She has what you gave up because it wasn't what you wanted. You remember that. She has trapped a man, you would never have done that. He will live to regret this as well, if he doesn't, that isn't the man you deserve. She has picked up your dregs and made life incredibly hard for herself. She is forcing a man to become a father. He will always resent her for that. That isn't the life you wanted.

January 7, 2006
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thanks everyone. i am feeling very emotional. I have another thread i started called "why do i need a man to feel good"

Hugs, Lost

January 8, 2006
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lost,

she isn't going to have what you wanted.

cuz HE isn't able to give ANYONE what you had dreamed of.

yes, physically, they will have a child together - but it will be far from the dream of a "family" that you had wanted for the two of you.

he didn't want children - that isn't going to change - he is not going to want this one. the resentment will be there. he is STILL a cop - he is not going to be the happy fatherly figure - his job comes first - he will be the absentee parent and husband that you did NOT want in your life.

don't romanticize what you think they have. instead, consider the reality of how you felt with him.

she may have trapped him into marriage and a child - but it will far from the dream you had.

you still have a chance to have that dream -w ith the RIGHT person. she is stuck in an ugly situation - she's the one living in a dream world...and her bubble will be burst eventually.

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