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obsessed with the ex?
September 6, 2001
6:35 pm
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Please tell me I'm not crazy....I kicked my boyfriend out 4 months ago...I thought that maybe he'd think about why I kicked him out and come back...instead 2-3 weeks later....he finds some well-do-do woman and has totally blown me off...said it isn't serious and yet he's going to Australia in the winter with her....I was with this man for eight years.....I loved him so much and he always told me he loved me....
He is an alcoholic, but quit drinking and smoking for this girl....is it rebound or is it really infatuation with this girl..?..I hear that rebounders usually last 4-6 weeks with someone.....I guess it's the shock that he's changing for the rich girl....it really hurts....but why am I so obsessed with knowing about the relationship..?..He has hurt me deeply and yet I still want him back.....Do people really change overnight..or is it an alcoholic who never knew what love was in the first place? Please help me....I need some insight....If there are any good books to read please tell me.....I am really depressed about all of this....I can't even sleep at night....I have to control myself at work, because all I want to do is cry....Please help.....

September 6, 2001
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No, people don't change overnight, and since he is an alcoholic, duh, its the same behavior. thank your self for the insight to make demands, and draw boundry lines. There are tons of books, but what are you looking for? Right now you need a gym, a coffee shop, a great hair stylist, and ok, maybe a dog.
this woman is going to be going through what you are in a few weeks, and yea, besides a well to do drug, she is the rebound woman. You knew things were not right why second gues syour self, make a list of why what when and how you felt about him, look at co-dependency, relational rescue by Phil Mc graw, for your next relationship, not this one, The way of the Artist, but don't start buying go to the library. Don't be weak, be busy, wipe the tears, and eat some icecream, get a latte, and know its not about you. Congrats on the freedom, look at things from a different perspective.

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