Avatar
Please consider registering
guest
sp_LogInOut Log In sp_Registration Register
Register | Lost password?
Advanced Search
Forum Scope


Match



Forum Options



Minimum search word length is 3 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters
sp_TopicIcon
Obituaries
November 5, 2004
3:19 pm
Avatar
bubishi76
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Anyone ever seen the movie Serendipity?? In there he wrote his own obituary.

Today AKD died of a broken heart. He is survived by Debbie, the one that he knew was the one. He is also survived by a number of family members who have long since forgotten. Throughout the course of his life, all he ever wanted was to make a difference. As a martial arts instructor, he reached out to troubled youths who needed guidance and a role model. As a soldier, he fought for his country in a war that did not make sense. His sacrifice for his country was rewarded only with a scar in his heart that could never truly be healed for the nightmare that was reality, could never be compensated. As a cop, he devoted his life to protecting those, who could not protect themselves. He always strived to live life in truth and love. Though his suit of armor was less than perfect. In the latter parts of his life he learned that balance, could never truly be obtained. That no matter what type of kingdom you built, it meant absolutely nothing if you did not have a queen to help rule it. He only ever wanted others to know the love he felt, though he was trapped in the cell of his mind. The funeral is today at 3pm at the Blessed Sacrament Church. A Catholic, though renounced from the church by his sins. May he rest in peace, For the world will no longer hurt.

November 5, 2004
3:47 pm
Avatar
workinonit
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 27, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

bub, you must be joking. Please tell me this is a joke and you are not serious.

November 5, 2004
3:49 pm
Avatar
Anonymous
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I'm praying that this is not happening.?????

Bub...You out there?

November 5, 2004
4:05 pm
Avatar
LEILEI
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Bub
You are an awesome writer - unbelievable! That was the best obit I have ever read - I must have you do mine - we could make it aq double one - just like those double weddings you here of.

November 5, 2004
4:06 pm
Avatar
LEILEI
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

In college - I had a psych class and we had to write our own obit - was very hard to do - what do you say about yourself - well B - you know damn well your a great person and have so much to give will just have to see if Deb is the right one for you to give it to

November 5, 2004
4:06 pm
Avatar
LEILEI
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Did you read my note to you on the journal thing?

November 5, 2004
4:08 pm
Avatar
bubishi76
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Yeah,
though "MJ" seems to believe that I need professional help.

People, Please don't worry, If you've seen the movie, you know that I'm writing, just like in the movie. I'm not sure that I've reached that point yet.

November 5, 2004
4:08 pm
Avatar
LEILEI
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

B- like I said don't panic - I know you want to rid yourself of these feelings and not be where you are right now

November 5, 2004
4:09 pm
Avatar
LEILEI
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I know you are there and I know you want to escape all that you are feeling - its easy to cut and run and its so not you

November 5, 2004
4:12 pm
Avatar
LEILEI
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Hello - Bueno? Where did you go? I need some advice.

November 5, 2004
4:12 pm
Avatar
bubishi76
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Leilei,
I miss writing.

November 5, 2004
4:13 pm
Avatar
LEILEI
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Then don't miss it anymore - you must have a notebook laying around

November 5, 2004
4:14 pm
Avatar
bubishi76
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

What's the advice?? I'll do what I can.

November 5, 2004
4:14 pm
Avatar
LEILEI
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I bet your an awesome writer - I really saw a different Bub in your obit - it was amazing -

November 5, 2004
4:17 pm
Avatar
LEILEI
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

well, I know you are a p.o. and I am living in Las Vegas - the narcissist has knowledge of my move and is here Ihe knows where I stay yet I do not know where he stays - he harrassas via cell phone and has showed up her 2x when I wasn't here but left his mark just to let me know he is around - the police say I cannot get restraining order until I can find him - he has to be served - is there any ay around that

November 5, 2004
4:17 pm
Avatar
bubishi76
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I was in the process of writing a book once. It was going to be a collection of essays that I wrote about eastern philosophy and balance. Funny, I was almost an authority on that once. ANyway, I have two portions of it done.

November 5, 2004
4:19 pm
Avatar
LEILEI
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I take it you haven't heard from Deb? What time is it in your neck of the woods? Can I ask that ? or is it too personal since we are not suppose to share personal identities etc. LOL - I think it would be nice to put a State to every person here

November 5, 2004
4:22 pm
Avatar
bubishi76
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

You can take out a protection order. A restraining order and a protection order are two different things. What you need to do is document everything. That protects you in the long run. If he calls, get caller ID and document. If it's on a cell, should have caller ID anyway. Independent Process servers usually have PI's on retainer. These people can find him and serve him. You can take restraining and protection orders out without the police serving him if you have an independent process server. Most lawyers have these people under their wing.

November 5, 2004
4:22 pm
Avatar
fortheloveofgod
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Very nice Bubishi, very nice.

I'm going to come up with one of my own this weekend.

What martial arts did you study?

I think that we can kinda find a balance. It just takes time.

Talk to me!

November 5, 2004
4:22 pm
Avatar
LEILEI
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

b- If you had one day left to live - what would you do? and wouldn't time take on a new meaning for u?

November 5, 2004
4:27 pm
Avatar
LEILEI
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

B- thank you so much for the info I am going to contaxct a p.i. right now - I am just worried he will try and take my son or pull some stupid stunt- I don't want to monopolize your time here - I know they frown on chit chat and other people have true concern and compassion for you - I will post later I have some thoughts for you to ponder on - keep us informed of any updates, and finish the book your true talent is conveyed on paper. Amazing, a police Officer and an Author - put the two together and you could be on New York Best Seller list.

November 5, 2004
4:27 pm
Avatar
workinonit
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 27, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

bub, did you ever read the Way of the Owl?

It is an eastern philosophy book about understanding life cycle. Very way cool book.

Nice writing by the way. Glad you are sticking around!!!

November 5, 2004
4:29 pm
Avatar
fairy99
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 27, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Bub

One of my favorite movies. I loved it, especially at the end when it started snowing.

November 5, 2004
4:29 pm
Avatar
bubishi76
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Well, I'm on SD which puts the time at 225pm.

Ftheloveofgod- I hold a blackbelt in Chung do Kwan Tae Kwon Do however I've studied Jujitsu (both small circle and large) Kubudo, aikido,hapkido,Iaido,karate (shotokan) dabbled in kung fu (not really into that as much)as well as the more sporty stuff like kickboxing and grappling.

Leilei,
If I had one day left, I'd want to spend it with Deb so when I go, She will have enough happy memory to get her through. I would also make sure that I contacted some key people in my life. And eat some great chinese food.

November 5, 2004
4:32 pm
Avatar
bubishi76
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

FAiry,
Great movie huh??? Gotta love the end.

Workin,
Never read the book. Is it of chinese origin?

Forum Timezone: UTC -8
Most Users Ever Online: 349
Currently Online:
25
Guest(s)
Currently Browsing this Page:
1 Guest(s)
Top Posters:
onedaythiswillpass: 1134
zarathustra: 562
StronginHim77: 453
free: 433
2013ways: 431
curious64: 408
Member Stats:
Guest Posters: 49
Members: 110977
Moderators: 5
Admins: 3
Forum Stats:
Groups: 8
Forums: 74
Topics: 38561
Posts: 714261
Newest Members:
swright, nina1985, February, lisabaker, robertwalker, Why..
Moderators: arochaIB: 1, devadmin: 9, Tincho: 0, Donn Gruta: 0, Germain Palacios: 0
Administrators: admin: 21, ShiningLight: 572, emily430: 29

Copyright © 2020 MH Sub I, LLC. All rights reserved.
Terms of Use | Privacy Policy | Cookie Policy | Health Disclaimer | Do Not Sell My Personal Information