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N's, Abusers & How They Make Legal Threats
August 30, 2006
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What would happen if you did prove he is out to destroy you?

I can answer that.

Nothing.

Look up stalking to see if he is stalking you. that's against the law, extremely difficult to prove, and even though it might sound like the legal system will protect you etc., it won't.

Been there.

You gotta just tough this out.

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August 30, 2006
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Your settlement puts you at less than 50%, so he WILL accept your settlement kuz that's what the judge is gonna order.

I'd bet money, that you try to negotiate with him, you're gonna be negotiating for a very, very, long time.

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August 30, 2006
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Free...
I know you are right...there is no way that he will get a better deal in court...I don't know what else he wants, so it is difficult to do anymore than I am doing!
He wants to keep the property division and the kids together as one issue. I cannot do that.
they are not little pawns in his sick game.

they are KIDS...HIS kids.
which makes no sense to me...why keep paying his lawyer over the $2500 difference makes no sense to me..other than making me spend the $$ so when he has to give it to me, he thinks he has 'won'.

he has has 2 knee surgeries on my insurance...that is another thing to make himself feel better..
he really is an idiot, and of course this will be all over soon.
he knows it, I know it...and all this crap will be water under the bridge.

it is sad that trying to destoy another parent goes unnoticed.
but he will NOT destroy me.

there is no way I will let that happen...
I have moved on, he needs to.
but getting him to see that is truly a unattainable task.

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August 31, 2006
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well...today I meet with my attorney to figure out how to handle this mess.
my stbx got on the phone yesterday and was pressuring me to sign the parenting agreement.
I felt myself slipping back into my OLD role of letting him strong arm me..
it was getting too much
so I ended the call.

I hope this is encouraging to me.

nvr

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