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Now she starting to flip out
April 16, 2001
12:12 pm
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stones_dj
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Well I did what was recomended by a couple generious posters. I stoped calling her. However, I sent her an e-mail telling her that I have found an apartment and am moving into it. She totally flipped. Since I sent her the e-mail on thursday She has left me 50 messages on my cell phone tellimg me she's sorry and crying in the phone etc. She has called one of my best friends and his wife to talk to them. I was told that her parents had to take her to the emergency room Easter Sunday because she was having chest pains and couldn't breath. They gave her medecine for depression and she is now going to start seeing a counceler. She told my friend how sorry she was and that she Loved me very much and that she wanted to work it out. However, I think that it may be to late. Should I feel sorry for her? I do love her and I wanted nothing more than to make our relationship work. But we both have to be willing to work at it. How do I trust that she wants it to work ?

April 16, 2001
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Ignore words, and look at action, that is the only way to judge her intentions and effort.

April 16, 2001
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She just gave herself away - big time. Do not even....get caught up in this web. She's feeling frustrated because she's not in control anymore and you're taking control of your life "back". Oh well and bummer, Dude. She can flip out all she wants to - but like - Molly said - words are cheap and she's just showing herself here. IF she was sincere on her promises and her remorse - she'd just do whatever she needed to do and not talk about it and definitely not try and put a guilt trip on you. Pleeezzz, enough of the theatrics here. You're smarter than this, so just keep saying No - talk to the hand cause the face ain't listenin'. Know what I mean? You just keep doing that. She'll storm your gates. Frustrated controllers and spoiled brats - always do. But,you hold steady, keep up your boundaries and when she crosses one - put it up higher every time. You cannot give her one inch. Her problems are her problems and enough already of her trying to bully you......"right"? Bullying can be oh so subtle, too. Don't forget that little piece of information. She may try several different tactics if this one isn't working, so just sit back behind your boundaries and watch the show. Should be rather interesting......and insightful.

April 20, 2001
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Molly and Ladeska are both correct dude. Well, my roommate faced a similar situation. His date decided to kiss another guy and he was angry and told her that he wasn't interested in her anymore. She then tried to committ suicide and overdosed on medication and had to go to the ER. After her return, she begged, called, and Instant Messaged him wanting him back. It took about a week but he gave in. Now, she's attached to him like a magnet and he is a situation where he doesn't know how to handle it. He basically stuck in a relationship where if he says no, she might kill herself again... so keep to your guns bud. It will die down real soon.

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