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NOW I think I can tell you all
August 8, 2005
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I didnt want to say anything just yet because if it didnt go as planned I would have been REAL bummed.. No one knows better than me that much more REAL anything is not good..

So.... Guess what I did.. The most final and definate way to say I AM NOT TAKING YOUR CRAP ANYMORE!!! I got restraining orders against my daughter and that woman she lives with that is controlling her.. Yepp!!! And the Judge granted every single thing I asked for too. And I speciffically stated that she is not to have or posess any one of my husbands urns that have his ashes in it.. Hell her bio dad just did she wants ashes that bad, go get his for crying out loud. This is not kindergarden anymore..

I know some of you my think i am doing this for revenge or out of spite.. You know at first I thought that might be a little true, but after all this. I honestly dont think so. If anything the most I can say I am getting out of this is empowerment.. It feels like I have just put my foot down and said "NO MORE"
They want to fight then let them have at it. I Do NOT want part of ANY more negativity in my life than there already is. Even that is giong to come to a sudden stop here very very soon. I think now that I am taking badk control one action at a time soon it will do the reverse snow ball effect and start to subside a little bit at a time...

What I really need to do now I hook up with some new friends that are Not of the Past Life persuasion. Excuse my spelling I am in a hurry.. I am on my way out to take the court papers to the sherriff to be served today. God I can not believe who much I feel more in the drivers seat now.. I amd not letting go of my self this time and I do not know how it even happened the last time..

The one thing that does concern me though is that I am worried about the reaction my daughter will have when she recieves her orders.. I know she never expected me to do anything like this. And it is going to hurt her. Like I should concern myself with that after all that they have done?? Yes because I am better than that and above all that and I care about her no matter what. I may not want to but I do and nothing could ever stop that.

I think I forgive her too only because I know she is not acting in her own behalf. I dont think she is capable of doing such malicious things on her own she just doesnt mentally have the abitliy. When she gets this order served it is going to be like a huge rush of reality blew in with the wind and knocked her down. She is really going to finally realize what she is doing and what kind of person Rhonda really is. I just want this whole thing to go away and I want to get on with trying to save my life. Its just about to the point where I think it may be able to be.

I am in the dog house with my boss though and also have a meeting with him in a few hours.. I know he is finally going to give me a week off llke I have been telling him i needed to do. But i just cant afford it but now I just cant afford not to either..

Another news flash I have been waiting to spill. I may also be taking a trip to Ohio somewhere right on the Pen. state line.. A very good friend of mine is going to fly me there for the week to see how I like it and if I want to consider moving there.

He is a male and I have known him for 35 years and Matt liked him enough to ask him to look out for me. So I trust him.. I made sure I absoultly set him straight that there is no way what so ever going to be any chance that I would ever consider a relationship with him or anyother person right now.. He allready know that though.. God.. HE has known me since I was 16 years old. GEE??? and were still friends.. I couldnt be all that bad then...RIGHT??? Thats 3 times longer than my daughter has known me so what whould she know

I will most likely be battered by the time I come home tonight and not anywhere near that positive person I am right now...I dont know what will happen with my boss and I am scared shitless to tell you the truth because I screwed up really really bad last Friday and I know if had been someone else who did that they would have been toast.. so those who do Pray please pray for me and as GOd to go easy on my poor frail soul. I am just getting back some life in me and I dont want it to be sucked out of me again.. At least I am thinking about it this way.. It can only hurt for a few minutes then it will be over with and you can leave.. You just have to learn in time to deal with the consequences thats all. cross your fingers folks cause Im going in for the kill..

Oh by the way. I also forgot to tell you that I have 3 days to move out of my house now too. Father in Law has that to be proud of. One thing at a time that is all I can do.. I know I can buy time wlth that for now so la de da de da! not going to mess my day up thats for sure..

bye all; dont forget to pray...

August 8, 2005
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It is great that you are taking action and even though it is a painful process you can begin to live your life better. I hope all works out for you and that your daughter does realize the wrong she has done.

Much Love,

RLH

August 8, 2005
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August 9, 2005
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Forever:

Wow what a welcome change in you. 🙂

Keep us posted as to what to pray for. Remember, this to shall pass and one day you'll not have to put up w/ any of it. Keep your focus where it should be and you will do just fine.

August 9, 2005
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I don't know what your daughter did but it sounds like you are making excuses for her by blaming her friend. Your daughter is responsible for her actions unless she is insane. Its sad that it has come to this but you need to take care of you. Your daughter needs to feel the consequences of her actions. I wish the very best for you.

love,
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