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not on my proportion
February 20, 2004
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I'm in college now, but i don't live in the same place with my parents.. here i live with two of my brothers.. i have cousin that really care so much about us, actually i have quite much differences in every way from her expensive lifestyle, hi class social life until different personality...
she's actually very nice and keep trying to make me in her social ladder.. it's a bit difficult for me because my mom is quite stingy an she keeps supporting me with her money and give me some stuffs... actually i quite enjoy this... she's also very independent also very defensive, she teach me so many things and makes me feel that i owe her so much... the thing is that i don't really like if she's bossy towards me.. i feel stupid if she order me in front of other people or bring her shopping bag, i feel like stupid and lose my pride, somehow i'm not used to be treated that way because in my hometown my friends respect me as a good gal from enough family... well i dont blame her, she might feel powerful over me because she support me a lot not only physically but oso mentally..so i decide to stay away from her because i want my life back, for a period of time,i can runaway from her but she kept terroring me with her needy... sometimes i let her breath with agreeing to meet her.. i dunno why she wants me to be with her all the time, in fact so many peole want to be close with her, when she scold me at the end she'll apologize.. she has high expectations over me, that's a good thing, somehow our friends really respect us becoz we behave very well, but i need space... en once i told her bout this, she slapped me over en over, unconsciously, i oso hit her, the next day she apologize...
if she read this letter, she might come to kill me....

February 20, 2004
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She sounds like a bully.

February 22, 2004
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several days ago we have a quarrel, because i told her that she can borrow my bro's car, but she has to let his bro drive because she can't drive manual, she gets mad because, the truth it's because of her i can drive now, she puts trust in me en all the people do the same thing to me... but i told her can't drive manual is not a bad thing. none of us are guilty about this, although i think that she's a bit exaggerate, but for me some people have sensitive side.. like i said that she's very defensive, in fact she's perfectionist.. so at last we clear things up at the end. Now this is communication, we told each other about our feeling, otherwise if i'm just quite when she scold me, we'll keep our anger.. i learn that only we that can make ourself become people's doormat... nobody can help if we daren't trying to make a change...

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