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not having friends is hard
April 17, 2004
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mea
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I had a friend that was around my age and she ended up in st peters and i wont ever she her again and now I have no friends around my age and im am having mixed feelings because of it. I need some ones help I dont know what to do about it.

April 17, 2004
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I don' have too many friends right now either. It sure does get lonely. Most of my friends were getting into bad things and I no longer wanted to be involved. Are you close to your family? My mom once told me that people come and go, but family is always there. I realize that you can't tell family members everything like you could with a friend. Maybe try going out or volunteer somewhere where you may meet a new friend. I hope I was of some help.

April 17, 2004
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yeah. I have 2 friends. neither of whom I am happy with right now. My one friend and I used to be close, but ever since he met his girlfriend I haven't talked to him that much. In fact they are getting married tomorrow. I wish I was invited, but I'm not.

My other friend is an asshole and I don't like talking to him that much.

So I spend most of my time alone these days.

April 18, 2004
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mea, how ald are you? chances ar you, like me are yougn enough to easilly make freinds, just find people who are interested in the same things as you, maybe go to some after-school clubs or weekend clubs

April 19, 2004
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mmm
my mates r crap too

one of them acts like mrs bouquet!

the other thinks her kid is a genius!

mm thats why i've found this site

: )

April 20, 2004
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I used to be really social and then I realized that too many friends is definately overrated. too many cause problem in life.....and most of them are fare weather friends...they are there when the times are good but when you need them the most they are no where to be found....sound familiar?

April 20, 2004
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i have a "few" close friends..i think i have a hard time opening up with new people maybe cuz of the "shame" I have from my past coda relations and never really being truthful with people....i did alot of lying and enabling with my last alcoholic boyfriend.....and I too think friends are overrated...I have about 3 good friends, not alot, but I am happy they are in my lives.

April 21, 2004
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Go to church and find meaning in your life. There's good people out there. Good luck!

April 21, 2004
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If it helps you any. I too, do not have many good, close friends. Lots of acquaintances. No truly "best" friend other than my hubby. The friends I have, we'd like to get together more often, but busy schedules with work, home & children limit us. The times we can share just become all that more special.

I am sorry your friend went to St Peters, but now, she is watching over you. She knows when you are thinking of her, and that you miss her. It is true, no one will ever replace her, but you will find new friends along your journey thru life. Some friends will journey with you for a short period of time, others much longer. Have faith, your friend is in a much better place now & would not want you to be sad for her.

Try joining in some new activity or class. Meet some new people. Just having something to do, and keeping busy will help. If you think it would help, try to find a support group for people who have suffered similar losses. There are people out there who care, and friends to be met and made.

April 21, 2004
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I can't speak for the others, but I'm too much of a skeptic to believe in religion.

April 22, 2004
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Hi mea,

I can imagine how it's like not to have your best friend around, because it's quite the same for me too.

I was having lots of acquaintances once but only one special/best friend my age.Now it's been about two years that we are apart,because i'm living in another country.We do keep in touch on a daily basis through emails,but still it's not the same.To me she's more than a friend ,she's like a sister and part of my family.The friedship that we have shared and are still sharing now (but in a differnt way)is precious to me.Though we have completly different interests,it has never been a problem.

I do socialise but i will never replace my special friend no matter what keep us apart.

I really don't know what to tell you to do,but if you think socialising with others will help you, do it.Slowly, slowly i think you'll get over it.

Wishing you all the best,Toutou.

April 22, 2004
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One of them cancels plans when she gets a date. Another is hypersensitive and cancels the entire friendship at minor errors on my part. The other is always complaining about one thing or another like it's the latest fad. Everybody has their quirks I guess.

April 24, 2004
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That's my jerk friend. Every time I do something he doesn't like, he threatens to leave. Like I'm some girl that worships him.

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