I have had a hard life full of unhealthy relations, beginning in early childhood, at home. As much as I would like to believe that all of my giving back and personal work toward self- healing that I could break those chains that both my husband and I had to deal with in our families coming up. I am now confronted with just exactly the same patterns in my adult life with my own family. I said I would never go thru or allow such things to happen. I even have programs in the community and make every effort to help those in need. Yet, I am sickened about the idea of not being able to prevent the same pattern from repeating in my own life. And I have no idea how to deal with this situation. All I know is that it must stop here and running away will not solve anything. I am determined to face and deal with this situation unlike those before me and break those generational curses. For my family's sake, my own healing and for the benefit of those who I pass along these wisdoms and tools to. Please help!