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No Job, no energy..Blaaaah monday!!!
January 31, 2005
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Ive ben unemployed now (AGAIN ) fro 3 weeks. I had my last job for about a month and a half, and they had No reason no explanation, and all through out the dreaded visit in my supervisors officeshe said how everyone there really liked me, that I didnt "do" anything." that if some one called her in 10 minutes she'd give me a wonderful referral.. but that "it was an office mis match." I "didnt mesh with the office." I was stunned, but took it, and my box of personal stuff in stride, but today the novelty has worn off, Im feeling like My skills wont matter becasue I only had my last 2 jobs for 2 months each, and what am i supposed to tell people at interviews??? I think the one interview I went on last week was shot to hell becasue I was honest about what my last supervisor said... they seemed to understand and stated "It doesnt seem like they gave you a chance." Im just having an emotional day. I called in my MANY prescriptions this weekend because my last day of medical coverage is today,and the copays alone wiped me out... and Im just bummed out.. theres only so many times i can vacuum this tiny apartment, and only so many times i can organize of clean...and TV is sucking me in the vortex (thats my couch) Blaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhh

January 31, 2005
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Dear Addicts Wife

Oh wow do you ever sound like me..I have been fired twice since November. The first job only lasted two weeks and the second job lasted two months. They told me to use them as a reference because everybody likes me. They said it wasnt a good fit....wow....I dont know whats going on.

January 31, 2005
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oops I hit something before I was finished.
Anyways I am 54 years old and this is the first time in my life that this is happening and I dont honestly know why. I have relocated to be with my family and away from my significant stupid other.....so far its been tough...

January 31, 2005
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Ohh, relocating is rough!!!
I keep wondering, why, If I'm "so wonderful" and "such a doll", and "everyone here LOVES you..." than WHY THE HECK do i not have a freakin job???!?!?!!?!!?!?!?!? Do I just suck at this?? Is there something Im just not getting??
once the 'novelty' of having al lthis time to do stuf wore off, It's TOTALLY been making me doubt everything about myself.... Like Im the last to know something about me, or that no one will tell me, or... Im confused.. but Grrrrrr.. its been a rough Monday. Ive needed to vent for a while.. I guess.

January 31, 2005
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Its good to vent and yes I know what its like to doubt yourself and wonder if you are the last one to know......hopefully it is just a bad day.....! I like the expression "not a good fit"! They are probably right and theres a job out there with a good fit for both of us.

January 31, 2005
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...Like mt mom said" You'll find your place in this world, Jennifer."
I just fee llike I should find something esle to do, but am not willing to "give in" Im pretty sure the last job loss was becasue It was very cliquey" (Spelling???!!?!?) ANd I didnt partake in office gossip, hated it as a child, felt no need to go back to recess at my new job...So, who knows, forsure.... Htere is a place for us, and we will find it, Memphis, WE WILL!!!

February 1, 2005
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yup we will.......and I am gonna postg when I do...hope you do too..we need encouragement

February 1, 2005
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thanks!!1 my monday got more nerve racking for me though, I posted the thread..Nervouse asbout visit to the doc... its gunna be a long week, but I'll make it. I appreciate you're replies, ansdsupport!!!

February 1, 2005
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I sent out 3 resumes VIA career builder website today, despite whatever pending illnesses I have yet ot be Diagnosed with, and complte lack of energy... I think Ill go for a little walk before it gets too dark... the fresh air just may do some good...

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