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January 16, 2005
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I highly recomend if you are trying to stay out of a bad realationship you have no contact with that person. It took me almost a month to pick myself up off the floor screaming and crying over a man who was hurtful in so many ways.
I heard so many people tell me just do it for awhile. Stay away, no calls ect...
I feel like a hole no person. I actually am able to smile, and that hasnt happend in many years!

January 16, 2005
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I agree 100%. He is gone and if I don't want to get hooked again the best thing for me is NO CONTACT. Now it is enforcing it.

January 16, 2005
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good job you two - I want to get there so desperately.

January 16, 2005
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Thats great to hear lost, its always wonderful to be able to smile again and really mean it!

I'm trying to do what you are. The guy I am/was involved with was good to me and we had a positive healthy relationship. But due to some circumstances slightly beyond our control, we can not be together. I am trying to let go of him and not keep hanging on when I know that at least right now, we cant be. Causes too much pain. Letting go and no contact is hard, but it has to be done sometimes! Everytime I hear from him again, it makes it worse, yet I would give anything to have one more time to hear his voice, yet after that, I want one more, and other.....

January 16, 2005
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This relationship for me has been like a drug addiction. "One is too many and a thousand is never enough."

In order for me to let go, I have been repeating this. "I wish you well, but well away from me." I believe we have kept each other sick. I want to be healthy and he believes everyone else has the problem. Each of us is entitled to our opinions.

Although I was aware the relationship was dragging me down, I had no idea to what degree. I feel so light I could lift off and soar....it feels wonderful. Wishing everyone serenity.

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