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January 28, 2005
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How did we do yesterday!!

Anyone up for day 3???

I am, plus day 4 and 5 over the weekend!!!

Sound off!

January 28, 2005
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I'm still in, Starry!

January 28, 2005
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YAH!!!

It is a good feeling to have control!!

Who else is in?

Have you been sticking to it!!

January 28, 2005
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Of course.

I had a dream about my ex last night. I dreamt I called him and his new girlfriend answered the phone, and that I asked when they started dating, and she wouldn't answer me, and I told her that he started seeing her while I was pregnant.

In the dream she said, "there's no specific date when we started to be together, we are just perfect for each other. he is so happy and he never hits me or cheats on me!"

I woke up so pissed off. In my dream, all my friends were in my house and every room I walked in to they yelled at me for calling him......

Ugh. So I DREAMT I called him. I didn't actually call him. Then my new guy called me this morning from the base before his PRT - he's coming to see me this weekend. So it leavened my bitterness somewhat.

January 28, 2005
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I'm in, but I haven't stuck to it. I caved yesterday and it put me back to square one. However, I haven't heard from him this morning, which is a good start. I get roped back in when he calls and I answer the phone or I return his message....

January 28, 2005
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He knows he is roping you in, so he can continue his game..

Promise yourself today, no matter what you won't talk to him...

Just for today!!

January 28, 2005
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I tried to start this day off with not calling him....I figured since he's been telling me he doesn't want to see me or talk to me anymore I should give him what he wants. But at 10am he beeped me on the nextel and i resisted for about 15 seconds and then just said hey back to him....he said "why are u so quiet this morning?" I just said I've been working. I wanted to say....What the hell do u mean why am I so quiet, you just told me yesterday you wanted me out of your freaking life for gods sake!!!!! But we had a civil conversation for about 10 mins which pretty much consisted of him telling me about his poker night last night and something about some friend of his cousins wanted to give him a dog. I wanted to ask him why is he telling me this...why doesn't he call Jennifer and tell her?? Probably because she wasn't available, and I ALWAYS am for HIM!! But I didn't start any crap...I just listened and was polite. Anyway...I'm not calling him I'm tired of it all!!

January 28, 2005
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I'm sitting on my hands trying not to call him. I think he got the picture last night, that I'm just not really into this anymore, but it strangely makes me sad, too.

January 28, 2005
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GAMES...it is all a game...they want to make sure we are hanging on...

don't let them win!

January 28, 2005
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Im in as well...its so hard to not email or call when you two are still friends as well...but I will today and this weekend as well. Last time I did this he wondered if I was hurt or something..huh? what is that about...Why do they want the ones that dont want them back??

January 28, 2005
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I have to start sometime!

January 28, 2005
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Hi everyone! - I'm in! Day 11 for me. Still hurts tho, but I'm hanging in there with all of you. Let's try really hard! Didn't cry today yet. Take care all.......

January 28, 2005
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Come on ladies! I'm in and here to support you all. You can do it, be strong!! You ARE strong, you'll make it and it'll get better! I promise!

January 28, 2005
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it's been 20 mins since i've talked to him now...(yall don't laugh)

January 28, 2005
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What happened allconf?

did he call you again?

January 28, 2005
2:27 pm
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i got weak and called him after lunch....sigh.... but he has his son this weekend and we don't talk when he has his son so I know I wont talk to him from 4pm today until probably monday. I just wonder if he wouldn't had called me first this morning if I wouldn't had called him....who knows...

January 28, 2005
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mine has called three times, left two messages and also tried my cell. I am not calling him back!!!

January 28, 2005
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Yeah jko!
Hang in there...you'll feel so empowered and in control. I wish I could join no contact, but alas, mine is still living with me. I think I'll go with "no unnecessary contact beyone the children", and get the hell out of dodge when they're in bed.

He'll be off with his woman tomorrow, no doubt, so I'll just work to put it out of my mind and enjoy the peace I get from having the place to myself. It doesn't matter who he's with now...it's over for us anyways.

January 28, 2005
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I'm in...it's day 3 for me. It's getting harder by the minute not to write. He hasn't contacted me either.....so it's really not that I'm being tempted by him to write....it's all me so far....sigh.

I'm betting this time he won't try to contact me again. Maybe he's seen the error of his ways the last time we talked and decided to leave me alone. Would be nice, although my heart still wants him to write me.

Why do I have to be so damn emotional?

January 28, 2005
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I am so proud and happy for all of you!!!! Just the thought that you are all trying so hard and supporting each other...I am happily amazed!!!!

I would have joined you 6 months ago but now, he calls me and I could care less. Too little too late. Just wait till you get here!!!

((((((((((((((STRENGTH))))))))))))))))

January 28, 2005
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Dear Hurts - because you are human, that's why. I'd rather have emotions than be emotionless like the ones that hurt us.

January 28, 2005
3:43 pm
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cool JKO.....way to go!!
Today you are my hero!!!!

Hurts...I am so so proud of you.. I know you are struggling, but doesn't it bug you he hasn't called you....why would you want to talk to him when he doesnt want to talk to you.
If you keep not contacting him, I promise he will contact you soon and you won't want him!!!

January 28, 2005
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I just read this topic post I had a feeling the last couple day's what it was about, so , I have not responded all day today and am glad I have a place to help keep this a goal. I know tonight I'll get a call or a drop by. I think she check's up on fri & sat's to see if I have smartend up and decided to enjoy life and challange her power over me. Wow kinda like Star Trec.

January 28, 2005
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Hi guys well it's Saturday for me here DownUnder! I broke the no contact rule yesterday and feel pretty bad about it but am committed to no contact from today on....i'm not going to permit myself to stoop back down to his level and get involved in pointless arguments that get me nowhere and just leave me with a bad taste in my mouth!

So today I'm going to a big concert....benefit for the tsunami victims and there is lots really good bands playing so it should be fun to get out and take my mind off things.

I will have a dance and sing for you all!! Good luck with the no contact and remember.......RESPECT (the way we should treat ourselves and the way we want others to treat us)

Lilacwine xxx

January 28, 2005
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lilacwine-you hang in there. It's funny, because now my guy, who NEVER asked me to do anything anymore, (other than have sex) left ANOTHER message asking what I was doing tonight. too bad I have other plans with girlfriends. Of course, he does not warrant a response. You need to stay busy, which is what it sounds like you are doing. I had to fight temptation - if I had called him back, I know it would have led to me caving and cancelling my plans with friends, which would have ticked off my friends and made me feel lousy, and then have been stuck with him tonight....Enjoy your concert. We are thinking of you!!!

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