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NO CONTACT CLUB -- Revelations
August 4, 2006
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Super good friends with animal attraction...but neither can move.

August 4, 2006
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Well, P,

I seems like that's even better than BF/GF, right? A solid foundation before you build the house?

Give him a chance and see what you hear. I bet the suspense will be over shortly.

I wish I could be here this weekend to help, but I don't have a computer at home so I'll have to leave you in the capable hands of the rest of the club.

Strong? Lovinglife? Truthblister? Taj?

August 4, 2006
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Here I am. Didn't go out, after all. I will try again, tomorrow evening. Just didn't have the spunk to dress up and emerge from my cave tonite. Promise I will, tomorrow. Honest (fingers double-crossed behind back).

Sigh.

August 4, 2006
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h_girl- u should read about the engineer..my post P&L needs support is about him! That is how bad Mr smooth got...pure evil and manipulation. You still with yours?

August 4, 2006
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Good girl, Strong! Not to worry

As the senior members of this club, we have to prove to these young ladies that we've still got it!

I shall be checking on your progress on Monday. Hope to hear that you ventured out and "bearded the lion in it's cave" :0)

H-gal

P.S. Now see what you've done? I just called my friend who works for a large hospital and said, "hey, how about a drink and some pupus after work?" She said yes, now I must beard the lion!

August 4, 2006
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I'm here too Strong- we must be careful not to get too comfy at home, huh? Sometimes we need to give ourselves a kick in the butt to get us movin. Though I am a home body, I know that by not making the effort to get out- it isn't helping the sitz any. I need to get out too!

August 4, 2006
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Have a great weekend H-gal.

August 4, 2006
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Thanks so much, LL! You too.

August 4, 2006
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hi.. how is everybody doing? I can relate to the home thing : / we should get out more. I'm here... i keep falling into the trap of thinking about him, dont know why the sudden awful backslidding but i know i'll get through it like we all do. 🙂

August 4, 2006
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are u online now Hope?

August 5, 2006
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P&L,

Not much you can do except wait for him to get back. One thing I'd recommend though is to avoid needling him about not keeping you updated or calling back sooner. When people (ie, girls) do that to me, I feel kinda bad that they're disappointed, but also a bit mad that they're making such a big deal out of it.

I mean, I plan trips and stuff all the time and only tell one or two people. It's not that I'm snubbing the rest of my friends and family, I just assume that nobody really *cares* about tracking my every move. And if they did, I'd probably get scared! 🙂

It'll be alright. Maybe you're just stressing because you think you might lose him somehow... in my experience, these kinds of clean friendship/attractions can last and last, even through years of other relationships. Eventually one of you might even be able to move, things don't always stay the same.

August 5, 2006
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THanks, Truth!

August 5, 2006
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Hei,

nice to meet you LL (even when i have met all of you before, i read every day this site)

Today is a bad day for me. I want to cry but i can´t. I think my eyes are dry.

I´m exactly on day 25 of Jerk1 and day 7 of ex-n.

Yesterday i was thinking about all the relationships i have had. I felt so sorry for myself. It´s incredible how all these stupid fellows have treated me without any compassion or empathy. It was very tough to realize that i haven´t had any healthy relationship in my whole life. I was thinking how it´s unfair.

Sorry but i don`t feel like telling the whole story now. I´m feeling very sad and lonely.

I would like to thank your support and your help here.

B

August 5, 2006
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Borboleta... haha you should read on the original thread about OUR losers... the only healthy relationships i had i left... its normal to us i guess... we do bad guys, and that why we're here. Dont despair, i'm told theres a light at the end of the tunnel.
"and dont you cry tonight... theres a heaven above you"

August 5, 2006
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Borboleta...

When you are ready, just kick back and type away. Feel free to share whatever will help us understand your situation. YOu are safe here. No one will judge you.

- Strong

August 5, 2006
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Borboleta~

The great thing, (though it may not seem like it at the moment) that comes out of what you’re feeling today is wanting answers-and finding of those answers AND that you’re NOT in the misery of any of those relationships. Yeah sure it would be easy to replace those relationships- I’ve done that for about 20 yrs now- because I didn't like that feeling of not feeling loved I’d go right out and find me another man and end up back in the same boat. THIS time I am done- I’m learning to just deal with what I have to because nothing is worth the pain of not being loved and being rejected. And Hope is right..."theres a light at the end of the tunnel" though I'm not quite there yet myself!! In fact has anyone in here found the light yet?! If so PLEASE led me straight to it : )

And I give a here-here on Strong’s suggestion to write it out if you feel comfortable in here as it does help- remember no on knows us here and no one will ever know us- we can be as feel as we want to share wants going on in our heads. And there is something truly to be said about the benefits of writing.

August 5, 2006
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I don't know what day I am on....but know it's almost a month, if not more.

Life is good.

I am at peace and able to see things thru new "eyes".

And there are potential guys I am considering too, and yet, in NO rush.

Been lurking and following stories here and want to give everyone a big high five for great progress!!! and despite setbacks, you all seem to be making progress...which is all that matters.

August 5, 2006
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Hi, gang. I'd like to join you. There's somebody I'm trying to refrain from contactnig for the next week, and it's going to be very difficult. I'm glad this thread is here. I need it right now.

August 5, 2006
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Yay! I almost contacted my friend just now, but stopped myself. Now I just have to keep this up for a few more days. It might be difficult, but it's already feeling a bit easier, thanks to just being able to write this here.

August 6, 2006
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Welcome Raise & Seek

Seek- you'll find that its amazing how much just posting in here helps work through those moments. Just post away when ya need to!

Raise~ Congrats on 'around a month'- So tell us your secret-what did you do to get through?! Your at peace and life is good- tell us!

August 6, 2006
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Hope- Hope are you still up??

August 6, 2006
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yes as always 🙂

August 6, 2006
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cant sleep again LL.. i cant seem to either... these days i find myself nostalgic... missing something i never had maybe, he's out of the country which explains why he hasnt made any efforts to ruin anything lately... or maybe he finally forgot all about me.

August 6, 2006
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no I'm pretty tired tonight just hanging out on the computer ya know...

Went to a movie with my youngest-and his friends- he made me get out of the house- been kinda becoming a hermit- not a good thing. This whole last month has been extremely hard me. Just want to pick myself up and get back to normal.

So your missing him huh? That feeling is not fun

August 6, 2006
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HEY Hope I have a doll for a son! His a musican too!! But nah, he's only 17. Too bad we couldn't share my space stuff- he has one set up : ).

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